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What does this mean and what should I do?
As a disclaimer though, we are no relationship experts and we base our responses on experiences. Not out of sheer malvolence.
sry man, but a "break" is bad. she has met a new guy and has gotten pretty close to him. she now wants a break to try him out for a while without feeling guilt. after a month, she'll weight her options and choose between him and you.
Where'd you get your crystal ball?
Where'd you get your crystal ball?
Me and this wonderful girl have been together for 3 years. I'm right now finalizing my apps to get into med school, she is off working as an analyst 300 miles away. I was all ready for this long distance, apparently it's taking a larger toll on her. I honestly thought things were going smoothly. We talk everyday, I visit once every one-two months. Everything seemed fine, now she tells me she wants a month to think if we're really meant to be together. What does this mean and what should I do?
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swap meat..
strong spelling
has happened to me and have seen girls on dorm do the same thing. a break is either a slow way to break up or a way to get with a new person. these guys also agree with me:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=113468501
Did she ever visit YOU?... I visit once every one-two months.
+1 that she's probably boning another dude as I type this. Nothing you can do to change it really.
Expect to hear:
1. "It's not you, it's me"....but it's really you.
2. "If we lived in the same city, maybe it'd be different"....but it wouldn't.
3. "We want different things now"...but it's just her that wants something different.
4. "I hope we can still be friends"...not really, she just wants to bone other dudes and feel less bad about it.
hahaha this.
First, tell her immediately its over. Take control of the situation. If needed, immediately make your way to closest strip club with a fistful of dollars.
Second, light a candle to baby Jesus, Mary, Buddha, Allah, King David or whoever you choose to worship that her weak will to hold onto relationships displayed itself now, instead of 3 years into a marriage.
Thanks people, I'm over it now. Figure it's best now than later when school starts.