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I have been dating my girlfriend for a year. I have been accepted to medical school close to 1000 miles away from the state we live in now. We have not yet lived toghether, spending about 2-3 days a week. I am just looking for some advice or experiences. I know this is my choice. She is a great girl, but has some issues. She can be short tempered, very emotional and needs me and her family to comfort her/ talk through issues. Also, i really enjoy being with her I just don't know if she is "the one (I hate this term, but it's relevant here)." She is really excited to move with me and is planning on attending the state university. Don't get me wrong I would love some companionship coming into the hardest years of me life and appreciate her for being open to the move (she is almost more excited than I am about it). However, 1) I don't want to narrow my horizons and 2) i don't want to lead this girl on who I do love, but I don't know if I want to spend my life with her. Especially considering her family in our home state are so crucial to her and I won't be there or have the time to talk her through all her issues. I don't want to overthink this, It's just a tough situation I would rather deal with now than during a final exam. Any advice is welcome.