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Hi All!
I'm a NEWBIE! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We met in college.. and have been through so much together. Our relationship is very strong and we are very supportive of each other's goals.
We are in the "acceptance/rejection" cycle right now. He has received an acceptance to his second choice dental school UMDNJ (Newark, NJ) and we are still waiting for his number one choice.. Stony Brook. If he gets into SB, he can commute and everything will be a-ok. We can move in together soon, get married, etc. If he goes to NJ, we can't. I just finished my Masters Degree and am in a really good position right now. If I give it up to go live with him for 4 years (he wants to come back to Long Island when he's done) I will never get it back. He doesn't want me to give it up either, because I am in a really good spot right now. The thing is we are just coming to the realization that dental school is here now. It's not just something in the future anymore. It's about 7 months away. Of course the cycle is not over yet, but we are preparing ourselves for the distance... and although it may only be 1hr 45 minutes.. when you add on the studying he will be doing, I know driving ANY Distance will be a big deal. We always said we would get engaged before dental school and then figure out when we will marry...but that doesn't seem to be happening either. I know that he is just focused on dental school right now, (I am too... I am so supportive of it and do anything I can to help him) but I guess I am already starting to feel neglected, and he hasn't even started yet. I was thinking just the other day, as we were signing onto the Pre-Dental forum, "Wow, I wish they had this for me" and then I scrolled down and WOW here it is. I guess I am just venting.. and would like to hear some experiences from other gf's/bf's of dental/medical students. My AIM is Redoat and one of my e-mail addresses is [email protected].... contact me
I'm a NEWBIE! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We met in college.. and have been through so much together. Our relationship is very strong and we are very supportive of each other's goals.
We are in the "acceptance/rejection" cycle right now. He has received an acceptance to his second choice dental school UMDNJ (Newark, NJ) and we are still waiting for his number one choice.. Stony Brook. If he gets into SB, he can commute and everything will be a-ok. We can move in together soon, get married, etc. If he goes to NJ, we can't. I just finished my Masters Degree and am in a really good position right now. If I give it up to go live with him for 4 years (he wants to come back to Long Island when he's done) I will never get it back. He doesn't want me to give it up either, because I am in a really good spot right now. The thing is we are just coming to the realization that dental school is here now. It's not just something in the future anymore. It's about 7 months away. Of course the cycle is not over yet, but we are preparing ourselves for the distance... and although it may only be 1hr 45 minutes.. when you add on the studying he will be doing, I know driving ANY Distance will be a big deal. We always said we would get engaged before dental school and then figure out when we will marry...but that doesn't seem to be happening either. I know that he is just focused on dental school right now, (I am too... I am so supportive of it and do anything I can to help him) but I guess I am already starting to feel neglected, and he hasn't even started yet. I was thinking just the other day, as we were signing onto the Pre-Dental forum, "Wow, I wish they had this for me" and then I scrolled down and WOW here it is. I guess I am just venting.. and would like to hear some experiences from other gf's/bf's of dental/medical students. My AIM is Redoat and one of my e-mail addresses is [email protected].... contact me