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Now that the MCAT is over, and I'm job searching, I'm feeling pretty lost. I quit my job right after the MCAT (I hated my job) and now I'm looking for a new one. The job market is horrible, even for someone with a master's. I've applied to some temp agencies and I guess they're looking for me, and I'm also sending out resumes on my own. But after sending out 60 resumes over the past 3 months I'm pretty discouraged. Anyone had a similar problem?
I just feel really, really lost, as if at 28 I'm truly having a quarter-life crisis. A lot of my acquaintances feel the same way. Is it that lots of people feel this way and they just don't post on this board about it? I don't have any true confidantes, except for my husband, who's tired of hearing about it, I'm sure, so that's why I'm posting here.
I am trying to take some steps to get out of my rut and meet people:
I signed up for an advanced art class this summer, whic I'm looking forward to (I was an artist in my past life), and I also started a women's cooking club, which will have its first get together soon. I'm reading some good books on my personal reading list and trying to figure out what to do with my life. But I still feel really lost and kind of directionless. At 28, I figured that I'd have things "all figured out." But they're not figured out at all. I feel like each day lasts an eternity and having totally unstructured days (being unemployed) makes me feel really anxious and directionless.
My hubby's really busy and stressed out with work, and I really don't have anyone to talk to. I don't feel comfortable talking to my family about these things, especially since they have told me many times to just "be a doctor's wife and forget about your own ambitions." I haven't made any good girlfriends here in my city to talk about this stuff to either, though I'm trying. And counseling is just too expensive, especially being unemployed, and I don't have the money for it.
Thoughts? Am I going in the right direction?
I just feel really, really lost, as if at 28 I'm truly having a quarter-life crisis. A lot of my acquaintances feel the same way. Is it that lots of people feel this way and they just don't post on this board about it? I don't have any true confidantes, except for my husband, who's tired of hearing about it, I'm sure, so that's why I'm posting here.
I am trying to take some steps to get out of my rut and meet people:
I signed up for an advanced art class this summer, whic I'm looking forward to (I was an artist in my past life), and I also started a women's cooking club, which will have its first get together soon. I'm reading some good books on my personal reading list and trying to figure out what to do with my life. But I still feel really lost and kind of directionless. At 28, I figured that I'd have things "all figured out." But they're not figured out at all. I feel like each day lasts an eternity and having totally unstructured days (being unemployed) makes me feel really anxious and directionless.
My hubby's really busy and stressed out with work, and I really don't have anyone to talk to. I don't feel comfortable talking to my family about these things, especially since they have told me many times to just "be a doctor's wife and forget about your own ambitions." I haven't made any good girlfriends here in my city to talk about this stuff to either, though I'm trying. And counseling is just too expensive, especially being unemployed, and I don't have the money for it.
Thoughts? Am I going in the right direction?