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That is all well and good, but the term "Dr." originated in academia and was later adopted by physicians, and not the other way around.This is essentially the issue. Everyone wants to be a "Dr." when in fact I firmly still believe that only people who do a vigorous residency and go through medical training should be called Dr's.
Let's not forget that Registered Nurses are very protective of the title of "nurse" even though it's not a protected title. The RN's prevent the LPN's from using the "nurse" title even though the LPN's perform many of the traditional duties of nursing. In fact, at most places, LPN's can't wear the traditional all white nurse uniform.
So this claim that nursing is not about titles is rather stupid. We all know how important titles are to nurses and their inferiority complexes.
"The intent of restricting use of the title "nurse" is to protect the public from individuals who are not licensed nurses, yet deceitfully lead the public to believe they are and able to provide services that only nurses are qualified to provide."
Let's not forget that Registered Nurses are very protective of the title of "nurse" even though it's not a protected title. The RN's prevent the LPN's from using the "nurse" title even though the LPN's perform many of the traditional duties of nursing. In fact, at most places, LPN's can't wear the traditional all white nurse uniform.
So this claim that nursing is not about titles is rather stupid. We all know how important titles are to nurses and their inferiority complexes.
IMO, someone has an inferiority complex if they feel the NEED to be called doctor.
I did psych research for a few quarters and got reprimanded for almost 30 minutes because I referred to one of the researchers by her first name instead of Dr. XxxX. I was told I was being extremely rude by not acknowledging her title. She was the only one out of seven that REQUIRED you to call her by Dr. XxXX and nothing else and got very angry at any other title she deemed "sub par".
Maybe the problem is that you didn't use any title whatsoever, prefering instead to refer to her by her first name, which is completely inappropriate.
It is never appropriate for a student to refer to a professor or other superior/instructor by their first name. The error here was yours.
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It is one thing if a superior/mentor/professor tells you it is okay to call them by their first name, but for you to assume that it is okay is disrespectful.
Yes. I happen to agree with Taurus on many issues, but LPNs not being allowed to call themselves nurses or wear white? That's just bizarre.RNs do not prevent LPNs from using the title "nurse." LPNs have a license to practice nursing. Medical assistants, CNAs, etc., do not; many doctors employ them in their offices and try to fob them off to unsuspecting patients as licensed nurses. RNs and LPNs object to this, just as physicians object to those who they see as "pretenders to the throne."
Get your facts straight, Taurus...please. I mean, I know you've got some "nurse hate" issues, but it's not that hard to get the basics right.
Yes. I happen to agree with Taurus on many issues, but LPNs not being allowed to call themselves nurses or wear white? That's just bizarre.
First off, there is a difference in calling a physician by their first name and a coworker by their first name. I came from the business sector and we referred to everyone employed by the same company by their first name. I worked with a partner of E&Y and we even called him by his first name.
Plus, the woman who gave me a tour said everyone is friendly and on a first name basis. After I got lit into about the Dr. Xxxx thing, she later came up and apologized for forgetting to tell me that particular person was very picky about her title. She won't even let you call her Mrs. Xxxx. It HAD TO BE Dr. Xxxx. Nothing else was acceptable.
And finally - it isn't about the first name. I am okay with first name, Miss whatever or Mrs whatever or Mr whatever... It is about being demanded to be called doctor. I don't care if I have 12 PhDs and I am a MD. My name is still Lauren. Just because I have attained a certain level of education doesn't mean I am going to force people to constantly acknolwedge it. IMO, that is an inferiority complex (we discussed it in a psych class and it was one of the few things I really believed). You don't have to agree... was just stating an opinon.
First off, there is a difference in calling a physician by their first name and a coworker by their first name. I came from the business sector and we referred to everyone employed by the same company by their first name. I worked with a partner of E&Y and we even called him by his first name.
Plus, the woman who gave me a tour said everyone is friendly and on a first name basis. After I got lit into about the Dr. Xxxx thing, she later came up and apologized for forgetting to tell me that particular person was very picky about her title. She won't even let you call her Mrs. Xxxx. It HAD TO BE Dr. Xxxx. Nothing else was acceptable.
And finally - it isn't about the first name. I am okay with first name, Miss whatever or Mrs whatever or Mr whatever... It is about being demanded to be called doctor. I don't care if I have 12 PhDs and I am a MD. My name is still Lauren. Just because I have attained a certain level of education doesn't mean I am going to force people to constantly acknolwedge it. IMO, that is an inferiority complex (we discussed it in a psych class and it was one of the few things I really believed). You don't have to agree... was just stating an opinon.
But this wasn't a coworker, was it? You were a student doing research. The person in question was a senior researcher. You were in a subordinate relationship to this person, and you called her by your first name. You can't really think that was appropriate, can you?
Regardless of what you would do in a similar situation, appropriate manner of address is taught to children from the moment they learn to talk. You can't really have been ignorant of this social norm. I mean, if I were a hot chick, I would totally let every dude feel up on my boobs. But that doesn't mean I walk around grabbing tit without asking first.
This is not a matter of right or wrong. Just an opinion on something I have seen in a lot of cases and my opinion on the matter.
She was not my boss. She was a post-doctoral individual during research under the senior researchers, just as I was. She was clearly more educated than us, but she didn't need to rub that in our face. She even demanded that the senior researchers refer to her by Dr. Xxx ONLY. She'd even snap at her boss if they called her by her first name.
And this is a completely different situation than a physician. I'm talking about people in general who demand to be called Dr. Xxx in a regular every day setting (outside of the work environment).
You see? Now here was an opportunity where you could have simply said, "You know, you've given me something to think about" and let it drop instead of continuing to try to justify your actions. This is going to get you in trouble in the clinical setting down the road.
It is unclear to me why this continues to even be a debatable subject. Nurses are not trained in the pathophysiology of disease, and as such, cannot be expected to function independently in a medical practice that requires this basic knowledge to make decisions safely and reasonably.
Yeah, I was extra proud of that last line.
Sad thing is that I gotta bail again in a few days, and won't be back until Winter. Oh well, c'est somethingsomething.
Nah, no ban yet (though you know it'll happen someday).
I was at a training exercise in the desert with no internet access for a month and a half, and now I gotta go deploy until late October. Doubt I'll be posting from there (I'm pretty paranoid about posting on here from a military network). But I'll be back.
This one will be cake.
The next one will be a little more dangerous (and hopefully much more interesting).
You sure about that? Because having looked at a lot of curriculum, I don't see it.
You sure you're not the exception, rather than the rule?
Nah, no ban yet (though you know it'll happen someday).
I was at a training exercise in the desert with no internet access for a month and a half, and now I gotta go deploy until late October. Doubt I'll be posting from there (I'm pretty paranoid about posting on here from a military network). But I'll be back.
This is not a matter of right or wrong. Just an opinion on something I have seen in a lot of cases and my opinion on the matter.
She was not my boss. She was a post-doctoral individual during research under the senior researchers, just as I was. She was clearly more educated than us, but she didn't need to rub that in our face. She even demanded that the senior researchers refer to her by Dr. Xxx ONLY. She'd even snap at her boss if they called her by her first name.
And this is a completely different situation than a physician. I'm talking about people in general who demand to be called Dr. Xxx in a regular every day setting (outside of the work environment).
Maybe you should try not instantly jumping to incorrect conclusions so I don't feel the need to further explain myself.
I find it quite amazing that you can make a judge of character off an Internet forum. I'm pretty sure you could spend an entire day working side by side with me and you'd never know it was me. I was volunteer of the month at the hospital I volunteer at and I'm loving all the learning I've been doing with my PCA orientation I just started.
I simply stated that I personally believe someone has an inferiority complex when they force people to call them by Dr. Xxxx ONLY in and out of the academic/clinical setting. In my particular case, she required this title of her coworkers and bosses. A few of the people in the lab had gone out with her for drinks after work and she introduces herself as Dr. Xxx and likes to be called by that name ONLY even when out in a casual after work setting. Found that weird, and I believe she must have some sort of inferiority complex to be that anal about her title. I'm pretty sure that isn't reflective on how I am doing in my medical training.
I'll admit I am relatively opinionated and stubborn. However, I love to learn and hear other people's opinions, stories, and thoughts. It doesn't mean I'll change my opinions, but it is still a great way to learn and I'm always willing to listen and absorb. Learning is a lifetime process.
Lauren, baby, are you going to try to diagnose every single person that ticks you off? If you are, you are going to go to the loonie bin yourself. because it will drive you crazy. LIsten, call her doctor and move on. If you dont like it, dont go out for beers with her and dont associate with her.
No way. The insurgency is dead. We're going to sit on an AF base for seven months then head home. I'm going to be incredibly safe and ridiculously bored.
Saudi in '91 means you probably made the initial push on Kuwait for Desert Storm, right? I'd give my left *** to have zoomed across the desert after the Republican Guard back then.
Afghanistan better still be rolling when I hit my next cycle in a year or so . . .
relatively? no. it's more like clearly, accurately, and precisely.
You're wrong, so there isn't a discussion or argument here.
It's not an opinion where there can be different variations of right/wrong. It's a fact that you were in the wrong. Just accept it.
I completely agree with SDN9876. She definitely did you a favor by letting you know, as the alternative would be that people may view you as disrespectful and lacking insight into the dynamics of a workplace, which can often do more long-term harm career-wise.Let this be a learning lesson for you. You should be thankful that she said something to you. It has nothing to do with a "complex". I've never called any superiors of mine by their first name EVER. Even now that I am their "colleague" I still called them Dr. xxxx because they are older than I am. This is something you need to learn if you want to prevent pissing people off and not showing them respect.
Just yesterday I was looking at a magazine that listed the average RN salaries by state. CA was the highest at $42 or $44 can't remember which but Ohio was one of the lowest listed in the country at $26 and I was surprised at that. I know the cost of living is much higher here but that's a big difference in pay."
Just last week I was talking to a supervisor where I work and she said at least in our area, NPs have a hard time finding work as an NP.
I'm interested in hearing any thoughts and opinions.
Side note: I know a guy who wants to be addressed as "Dr. Firstname" because he has a doctorate.
From an unaccredited bible school. Uh-huh.
Let's not forget that Registered Nurses are very protective of the title of "nurse" even though it's not a protected title. The RN's prevent the LPN's from using the "nurse" title even though the LPN's perform many of the traditional duties of nursing. In fact, at most places, LPN's can't wear the traditional all white nurse uniform.
So this claim that nursing is not about titles is rather stupid. We all know how important titles are to nurses and their inferiority complexes.
The big issue for me in not money but the fact I will never return to the bedside as a staff nurse...period. It's not worth the stress.
I'm doing psych NP. The way the world is going I'll have no trouble working more hours than I want. Plus I'll have more hours in psych than PAs. I never worry about anyone else anyway...just do my own thing. FNPs will do well also.
I later went up to her and said "Hey Jane, my name is Lauren. It is nice to meet you" and I got chewed out. I was NEVER told she was a Ph.D graduate and I was never told her last name. If they had introduced her to me as Jane Lastname, a recent Ph.D graduate or Dr. Jane Lastname, I would have addrsesed her as Dr. Lastname. However, I was never told that she had a doctorate degree or what her last name was. So, I did the best thing I know how and introduced myself to her with the information I was given at the time. I immediately apologized to her and called her Dr. Lastname from that day forward.
The issue re: the "doctor" title is so trivial, I just don't understand why anyone even cares, least of all someone who is not a member sof the nursing profession and/or culture.
My son will graduate next year with a Masters of Divinity w/ Specialization in Christian Education. It's a 90 plus hour program! How do you do 90 hours based on a book?
I think the reason why it matters is that the DNP is being sold as training that is equal to that of a physician. It should matter to many people outside of nursing. It matters to the hospital administration who has to figure how to utilize this person. It matters to the patients who have to weigh what this person who introduces themselves as doctor says. And it should matter to other healthcare professionals.
When someone tells me their assessment of a patient with chest pain, it matters if they are an EMT, a RN, or a board certified cardiologist. We have to use shortcuts to determine how much someone should be able to handle or what they know based on their certification because we don't have time to personally get to know everyone who works in the hospital. So when someone introduces themselves on the phone as doctor so and so, given what I know about the DNP as it stand now, it makes a big difference to me if they are a DNP or an MD/DO.
The use of "doctor" matters because it is shorthand for all the other stuff that really matters. Training, experience, testing, oversight. Right now the MD/DO means a certain level of competency, and the DNP.....well, see the rest of the thread.
why dont you go to allnurses to spew your crap?Ah, I misunderstood the crux of the argument. I inferred that some were saying that it would be innappropriate for doctorate prepared persons to go by their title in a clinical enviornment under any circumstances because they are not medical doctors and only medical doctors should be called doctor. Since that is such a petty and foolish notion, I was genuinely perplexed by that opinion.
Now I understand you to be clarifying for me that the real concern is that some people would be so unethical as to try to deliberately mislead other staff, patients and the public as to their true role. I can see where that kind of subtrafuge would be dangerous and unethical, not to mention illegal. If people really do that, they should be held accountable. I personally don't think it is going to be a big problem, but I could be wrong.
I do not for one second believe a professional would try to pass themselves off as something they are not. I am dead certain the person on the phone, were they an APN with a doctorate degree would identify themselves to medial staff, the patient, and any other curious or concerned party, as an APN. If a few unethical individuals materilaize and go about impersonating physicians and become a genuine threat to public safety, I am sure it can be handled appropriately. So again, I think this part of the conflict is moot.
I do completely agree that the role of the APN needs to be crystal clear to all the stakeholders! I don't think that the role or scope of practice is defined by DNP vs. MS preparation, but I am not really savvy to all the ins and outs. The only time I have ever heard the argument that APNs are interchangable with physicians w/o any change in outcome statitics is in primary care. As the DNP is so new, I doubt those studies included DNPs, so again, the title the professionals represented used is irrelvent.
As for the ascertation that the APN training is equivilent to that of a physician, that too is completely ludicrious. I don't know any informed person who believes that. I have interpreted the argument to be that physicians are, in fact, overqualified for well child visits and the like, and that these primary care responsibilites can be safely left to adequately trained and educated persons other than a physician. This frees the highly trained expert physician to treat the complex cases, perform proceedures outside the scope of others, and generally focus on larger issues facing the acutely ill.
To me, this all sounds like a win-win situation. I am not convinved that being Dr Chilly (as in a DNP prepared FNP) would make me a better primary care provider. However, if one day I am convinced that that level of education would be of benefit and complete it, I can't see myself actuallly asking people to call me that. I think it would be detrimental to the APN-patient relationship. If I attend some kind of conference,, I am not going to write Dr Chilly on my 'Hello my name is' badge. It would say, Chilly, DNP, FNP. (At least I think that is how it would properly be written). I think I would introduce myself to people as Chilly Smith, your nurse practitioner. Verbalizing the level ofmy education seems silly and unnecessary. After all, I didn't begin introducing myself: "Hi, I"m Chilly, your BSN, CCRN, CEN, SANE prepared nurse."
I do understand and completely agree that the DNP should be highly clinical in focus, and I think they ought to complete rigorous residency requirements in their area of specialty. Further, there definately needs to be standardization so that everone knows exactly how someone with that credential was trained and educated. I don't think APNs should be taking exams designed for physicians. It seems counterproductive and a waste of everyones time and money.
Nurse practitioners (and PAs) will be a part of the landscape from now on. Regardless of the titles they use in the workplace, their peers and adminstrative oversight people are going to know who they are and what they do. More importantly, they are going to have an opinion about how well the individuals providers do it. Reputations will be earned based on ones own merit, not assumed defacto by a title. In this sense, it is no different than physicians, They earn my admiration, respect and in some cases affection, based on who they are and the manner in which they perform their job. That is how it should be, don't you think?
why dont you go to allnurses to spew your crap?