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You've missed my point. Others have addressed it, but since it's my quote, allow me to explain.
I don't mind eating with my team. I'd love it if we could sit down and have a power lunch and discuss stuff or have a general banter-fest. It'd be great. But that's not the reality of running a service in a program worth its mustard. Most General Surgery services in most programs are extremely busy, and every member of the team has a function. It's too bad that most of the scut falls on the shoulders of the intern, but that's the way our hierarchy works. The statement "Let's go for lunch!" is an intern's non-appreciation for how truly busy we are as a service and that the act of getting together and having lunch would be entirely impossible unless we ignored our clinical duties as surgical residents. So I take issue with the statement because it means that the intern hasn't figured it out yet. He hasn't matured to the level that's expected of him.
If he's hungry -- great. Go to the cafeteria and do a drive thru and eat on the way back upstairs to get $hit done. That's what I did and that's what the guys and gals who came before me did. To suggest that we should do lunch together means that you haven't a clue what's going on and that's what is so disappointing. Not that you are desperately hungry -- that's only human and we are, after all, just demigods.
As I said, it's difficult for anyone but a surgical resident who's been in a position to lead a team and have responsibility for the patients on the service to understand. I surely don't expect most non-surgeons to understand and they don't.
Actually, I think there are plenty of fields that see this. I just think its tolerated more in other fields. Not MY field. or yours. I had to call the IM chiefs the other day because a resident was trying to surf the net, take breaks etc while the rest of the ED was getting HAMMERED. And then the admitting resident tried to dump stone cold stable patients onto one of his other colleagues by requesting a 'screen'. (denied. I had to call his co-screener and tell him that he would either take these patients or my next call would be to his chief and his residency director for incredibly unprofessional behavior).
No one blames people for wanting breaks or to eat. But you don't go take nice long lunches and breaks when your team is working their tail off. Its unprofessional and under it all shows you have no respect or concerns for your colleagues.