I never said Medicine was equivalent to the Military nor did I say Attendings are Drill Instructors. I was giving an example of where sometimes in any job, be that in Medicine or the Military or even working at McDonalds, you're given a lousy job to do by a demanding boss. Funnily enough I have worked in all three industries, and sometimes you just get bad bosses who delegate to you bad jobs to do for that roster cycle. I'm simply pointing out that's the reality of the working life. If I had a dollar everytime as an Intern or Resident or Attending I've been overworked with endless on-call shifts and taken advantage of by my bosses, I'd be a rich man. Of course this is not a culture to perpertuate, nor am I encouraging this notion of ritualistic hazing; by any modern workplace standard, it is wrong to overwork people with no conscious about how it's affecting their personal lives and mental health. My position is not dipusting this. My position is that don't pretend to be surprised that this happens and unforunately it's a commonplace reality to expect in any busy workplace, especially in Medicine where it is an industry that is already rife with perfecionist ambitious personalities that are chronically overworked and overburdened. Unfortunately, in my opinion and during my training, work only got busier and harder as I moved from Student to Intern to Resident; for better or worse, this is a realistic expectation of choosing a career in medicine; that is, the journey from Student to Attending is a tedious and arduous one. Now, I'm not sure if there's a easy quick solution to this, hospitals are trying to improve rostering practices as well as receiving feedback from its junior medical staff in tandem with re-educating senior medical staff about effective and appropriate medical education; but like most things, it takes time for a cultural change, especially in an extremely traditionally rigid field like medicine.
Everyone has a "choice", not just Attendings. Students, and for that matter Interns and Residents, always have a choice. As I've already mentioned multiple times, they can say 'No, I'm not comfortable with this...' and directly feedback or complain to their Attending or through a safer avenue of their Program Director or Student Support. Most medical schools, hospitalis, and specialist training programs are setup to safely and confidentially receive the concerns of students and junior doctors. I think we're mistaking choice with privelege; everyone has free will and choice to do whatever they want (unless you're living in some tyrannical state), if you're an Attending you simply have more privelege given that you sit higher on the chain-of-command and have completed all your medical training requirements and earn more money. The OP can choose to 'put-up' with his current Attending for the term and provide critical feedback at the end of his rotation, but if the OP feels he's been mistreated, by all means, he should raise that concern immediately and have this matter investigated or have himself relocated to another Attending for the clinical rotation; that is his choice. I would certainly have concerns if the Attending refused to listen to feedback and/or the Medical School refused to investigate, but I don't think the OP Student has made that choice yet to escalate the issue. I do appreciate that when you're more junior and lower on the chain-of-command you feel submissive and obliged to entertain every will and whim of your superiors, but there's always a choice you can refuse to do a task if it's unreasonable or wrong; let me disband this 'myth' that only seniors have 'choices'; it's your life you can choose to live it anyway you want at any time, just be prepared to aceept the outcomes of your decisions. In my time in academic and clinical medicine, I've generally seen people either: speak directly to their supervisors to arrive at an amicable resolution or they just bite the bullet for that clinical term and move on; the ones I worry about are the ones who go quietly into a dark place and just resign or give-up medicine altogether. The key to this is that if you're unhappy you need to speak-up; people can't help you if you don't say something. And, I guess, if we are to change this 'toxic' culture in medicine, it's to keep an open dialogue.
I don't think what I'm saying is 'victim blaming or shaming'. I'm just putting forward a my perspective on the matter. I am of course empathetic to the mistreatment of the OP, and I do agree with the other posters, that supervisors like these should not be in medical education unless they're retrained to better understand how to teach juniors appropriately. Having said that, if we are to be fair, we haven't heard the Attending's side to the story who does not have a voice in this forum. There's always two sides of the coin in complaints and why it's not necessarily within the scope of a public forum to cast judgement on who's necessarily right or wrong without listening to all the facts of the case. Also on a side note, I would just like to make clear that hard work and receiving critical feedback in a reasonable way from a colleague or boss about performance is not to be misconstrued as bullying or harrassment or discriminatory.