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I don't think you understood. I wanted to go into derm, so I did derm specialties.
Anesthesia, ortho, ophtho, ENT, etc. etc are all REQUIRED rotations we have to do. Can't graduate if you don't do them.
I wouldn't expect you to. It's human nature for our opinions to be self-serving. .
I don't think you understood. I wanted to go into derm, so I did derm specialties.
Anesthesia, ortho, ophtho, ENT, etc. etc are all REQUIRED rotations we have to do. Can't graduate if you don't do them.
Really? That's curious. At my school we are required to do 1 wk of ophtho, 1 wk of ENT, 2 wks anesthesia, and no ortho. Why would any school require students to do an ortho rotation? Why not throw in required radiology, rad/onc, and PRS for good measure?
Look. We are not the ones you have to convince. We arent not PD's. We do not have a residency to offer you. We do not have a research-fellowship to offer you. We are simply observers who have never met you who are giving you advice since you solicited it and continue to solicit it.
If you dont like our advice, dont take it. Whether you choose to take our advice and consider a backup specialty and study your ass of for Step II is really up to you.
What I find annoying about this thread is you keep asking the same question and expecting a different answer. No one can change whether or not FMGs or IMGs apply for residency and get ranked high. No one has a secret about how to get a derm spot they are keeping from you. No one can do the work for you or change the past.
How you choose to approach the future is up to you alone. I recommend you not put all your eggs in one basket and use the next few months wisely. But that is a decision only you can make.
What he means is that you have done rotations in Derm, Anesthesia, ENT, Optho, and Ortho... youve dabbled in only the highest paying of specialties... Again, a dig at your character.
So at this point, what is the likelihood (say on a scale of 1-100) that some decent prelim medicine position would open up before July 1?
I think it would be difficult to find a good research opportunity at this point since obviously I was expecting to match were it not for the problem with the rank list.
If I just finish my MPH until the next match (obviously which starts in a few months), will it be detrimental? In other words, will committees think negatively of this?
I have talked to anyone I can think of but no positions are open now. Should I just get used to the idea that I won't be able to find anything until next match?
Another thing. Would it be reasonable to give up on derm and start considering other specialties? I thought about the possibility of taking more electives in say anesthesia or rads which are two specialties I have considered before, but obviously are not the ideal specialty that I'd like to go into. Would it be looked upon as strange if I did some rotations in these specialties at the end of my M4 year that are unrelated to the rotations I've taken before?
Please advise.
Not trying to convince you, I was just explaining to you how rotations work for us. that's all.
Do you realize youre digging yourself into a deeper hole?
what do you suggest I do? something i hate like surgery or ob if i can't get in?
Listen, you will NEVER know if you could have matched derm if you don't try again. IMHO, do your best to put this behind you in the coming weeks, months. Spend some time on a rads or anesthesia elective, just get in the hospital (you never know who you might meet that is in a position to help you). See if you like either one. Enjoy graduation - you've earned it. Finishing medical school is a huge accomplishment.
If a prelim spot comes up, take it - you'll finish your first year for derm, rads, anesthesia, or medicine. Study your ass of for Step 2. In June, after graduation, dig out and dust off your personal statement and CV. Polish them and bring them to 2 mentors - 1 in derm, and 1 in a chosen back-up field. Go see your dean as well and get his/her opinion on your application. Submit on Sep 1. Apply as broadly to derm as family/marital constraints will allow you to. Do practice interviews with any faculty member who is willing. Go on every interview you can. Basically - take the application process and make it your b----. If, at the end of all that you end up without a derm spot, then start training in your #2 specialty. If you hate it, leave. Nothing lost, you were thinking of quitting anyways.
You really CAN do this, if you make up your mind to grab this ****ty situation by the balls and turn it around.
Hate is a strong word.
Would you please TRY and convince me that you have a reason for an interest in Derm, besides money? Tell me that you are interested in TEN, SJS. Tell me that you saw a patient die of pemphigus vulgaris, and that set you on a mission. Tell me that your heart goes out to patients in Asia that have leprosy, or patients in South America that have Chagas disease....
Family Practice and moreover, Pathology deal with derm... what about those?
i moved to this country because i almost die from a derm related disease. our lives were entirely changed. i would like to work on blistering diseases and immunopathology. that's my ultimate goal. several of my family members spanning generations had cancer and relapses, i myself have had surgery bc of growths. FP deals with common, every day basic medicine.
even if i did not like derm, i would not go into FP. pathology does not deal with derm. you deal mostly with tissues and histology. no patient interaction.
why are you trying to convince me to go into something else?
why are you trying to convince me to go into something else?
... FP deals with common, every day basic medicine.
even if i did not like derm, i would not go into FP. ...
MSQ,
I would strongly suggest going to a therapist or other mental health professional to try to help you through this difficult time in your life. I would try to refrain from making any life changing decisions right now while you are still early on in your grief process. I truly hope you get the help you need right now.
Umm, so I go from not matching to having to go to a mental health professional? :| You are being a bit harsh, no?
Umm, so I go from not matching to having to go to a mental health professional? :| You are being a bit harsh, no?
Or being kind...
you dont want to make a bad decision while youre head is still spinning.
Are we going back to the begining of this again?
I seem to remember having made a comment about a Cluster B disorder somewhere on this thread.
I think Teri was trying to say that maybe a little bit of professional advice would help you get through this really tough time. I dont think its a bad idea. You could learn some strategies to coping with the current situation and how to approach the future. All of us have times in our life where we have too much on our plate and need to ask for help. No shame in asking for a hand when you need it. Many schools offer a few free sessions to students. And maybe it would be helpful to have someone who is not a family member or dean or advisor to talk about the situation in-person rather than virtually.
Of course, continuing this discussion would turn it into a "medical advice" thread which is not allowed and would get the thread locked quite quickly.
You seem to have taken her advice and turned it from a recommendation/suggestion (which is what you asked for many times) into a personal insult. It was offered to try to help you.
Again, if you dont want to take our advice, dont. But dont argue about it on the board. The rest of us are less likely to offer advice in the future and more likely to get annoyed leading to personal insults and name-calling.
It seems like you have a few options...
1) Quit medicine altogether since your world is black and white, and its either derm or nothing... lots of people have done this, and goes on to do other things with their MD
2) Do something productive and reapply to derm.
you're likely to have some excuse or level of hatred for these suggestions.. but here goes.. You can also
1) Do a family medicine residency, and cater your practice to mostly derm issue (I'm seen this done quite successfully)
2) Use all that skills that you have acquired through your struggles and life experiences that you talked about, and apply to this situation. I find it hard to believe that either you're exuberantly happy with derm, or miserable doing something else...
I also think you should at least talk to your family and perhaps seek some counseling. Goodluck
On a somewhat tangential note.... Does the person who seems to have some inside info on those NY Methodist spots that are still open have any suggestions on how to get through to them:? I sent them an ERAS scramble app., and unlike the OP would love to have one of their spots.
I am an AMG, and have passed all three steps, each on the first try, and have a valid unrestricted NY license, but have assorted baggage which is (I, of course, feel, unfairly) impeding my ability to match. My efforts to get through to them by email, fax, and phone have been unsuccessful so far.
Hey, I did get through by phone, twice, but all they will say is they have the ERAS apps, and stop calling....
I am in a position i want to warn you about...I have a lot of baggage due to personal issues with one of my children, and had a lot of family die while I was in med school. The whole thing reads like a bad melodrama, and it makes PDs really dubious. they look at things like my dean's letter, which unavoidably goes on about all I overcame, and semll trouble.
I think most PDs are not looking for brilliant residents, but rather, trouble free ones. I don't know how much you have focused on what you have overcome in your match process, but in the future I am planning on coming up with a lot of other stuff for them to focus on, up to and including juggling flaming torches. I just want them to stop unjustly feeling I might be unreliable because of something I cannot eliminate, and which I can't hide because it is all over my dean's letter.
My current thoughts are:
-since i'm pretty much done and just need to take step 2, i will study for it and take it and graduate with my MD. i guess it would be stupid to not get it with all the work i've put into it
-talk to PD at end of week to see if i can do fellowship in lab
-either continue to do prelim if i find one, or do some sort of research
-i dont think i will seek counseling at this time
It's a long and complicated story. In any case, that's what my dean's letter does. He saw it as a positive. I am not a resident now. I was in the past, and did a prelim year at a good program. Did fine, did not leave because of any residency related issues. Like I said, a long story and unavoidable circumstances. I just need to get a residency, anywhere, to get my career back on track.
It will happen. I just have to jump through a lot of hoops. You have to give up on the idea of things being unfair. Life is unfair. It just is. if you want to succeed, you have to focus on what good things you do have in your life. Then you figure out what you have to do, unfair or not, and do it.
Sounds like a great plan.
The only reason to consider delaying graduation is sometimes it easier to apply to residency when you are still in school rather than having a gap between graduation and starting. You shouldnt have to do any extra work, but if your dean or PD thinks it puts you in a better position to reapply its worth considering.
Otherwise, go out and make some lemonade and rock Step II and your research project!!!!
I have met quite a few "dermatologists" making a pretty penny and having a wonderful career by abandoning their board certified specialties and becoming a "dermatologist" full-time. I personally have met one ER doc who has a derm spa, and an Ob-Gyn who has her own dermatology practice and attends all the AAD meetings (she is not hard to miss...if you meet her you'll know what I mean).
Although I cannot condone becoming a dermatologist without residency training and board certification, several have pursued it successfully. Nobody can really stop you. There are many paths to achieving your dream.
It would be a shame to abandon your medical career at this point, if you are the outstanding student you say you are.
Things you need to do, no matter what:
- Finish your MPH.
- Finish your lab work.
- Graduate.
And...I sincerely hope you are spending as much time on your paper(s) and research as you are browsing and posting on this message board...
I was one of the people who chimed in about the NY Methodist program. They purposefully don't fill in the match (as in submit rank lists of 0) in order to scoop up good applicants in the scramble. The housestaff are 100% foreign grads, but not necessarily due to a prejudice against Americans!
You will work very hard there and be a warm body doing the work of 3 for the salary of 1/3, but hey-- it's a spot, it's fully accredited, and you'll emerge a board-eligible IM doc.
I was one of the people who chimed in about the NY Methodist program. They purposefully don't fill in the match (as in submit rank lists of 0) in order to scoop up good applicants in the scramble. The housestaff are 100% foreign grads, but not necessarily due to a prejudice against Americans!
You will work very hard there and be a warm body doing the work of 3 for the salary of 1/3, but hey-- it's a spot, it's fully accredited, and you'll emerge a board-eligible IM doc.
The problem with delaying graduation is that I'm also doing an MPH, so I've taken longer to graduate because of that, but I've finished my requirements for the MD already, in Jan. Because I did not start my MPH at the beginning of med school though, I still probably have 1 or 2 semesters left of it. So I might as well finish that at this point.
I don't understand what you mean by "you shouldn't have to do any extra work, but if your dean or PD thinks it puts you in a better position to reapply its worth considering." what do you mean by that?
again, this is one of my concerns. there will be a 3 or 4 month gap if i don't find a prelim between graduating and applying to residency again.
So you would not have finished your MPH if you start residency this summer? Then, yeah, definitely finish that up!
As for delaying graduation, I dont know how they do it, but there are students at my school who fulfill all the requirements to graduate, take a year off (sometimes out of town), and then come back and graduate the following year. They dont have any classes left to take the year before they graduate (hence no extra work), but they work something out where they delay getting their diploma. It also should allow you to do an away rotation if you want, or maybe an extra elective in another field.
As for the 3-4 month gap. Well, make the most of it! Spend that time in the lab, studying for the boards, doing a month or two on an indian reservation or a 3rd world country volunteering in a clinic. Whatever. Make some lemonade!!!
... I think it would look terrible to have a graduation of 6 years. ...
Would you please TRY and convince me that you have a reason for an interest in Derm, besides money? Tell me that you are interested in TEN, SJS.
I seem to remember having made a comment about a Cluster B disorder somewhere on this thread.
You know... Ive been thinking...
It seems like its our generation that is idealistic about career choices. Many in our parent's and grandparent's generations fell into their career paths, and thrived in them.
I know of someone in their generation that chose his undergrad major because they were giving out scholarships for that major. He found something that he was interested in and good at, and went on with his career and grad school to promote that career path. I know of someone else who worked his way up in a business, learned the ropes, and eventually started his own company doing the same thing.
So many old-timers in medicine got their start in a field just because they just fell into it.... I was just reading about Dr Taussig... Guyton... the physiologist... I believe he was in a neurosurgery residency before he ended up in a wheelchair and became the biggest name in physiology. One of the physicians I know ended up in his field because the US Military forced him into it.
I guess my point is... this is life. be thankful for what you have... Keep an open mind about the future.
His point was that the match goes easier, and you have less to explain if you are applying as a medical student rather than someone who has been out of school, and you are more likely able to work in electives/rotations without them looking like add-ons rather than courses in your curriculum. So many people in your situation defer graduating while doing eg a research year.