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This is more complex than it seems on the surface. My wife has a job offer near ACOM where she'll make 7 figures. I'm not 100% set on what specialty I want to do either but I'm pretty sure it's not surgical. Definitely not family medicine or pediatrics. Leaning towards oncology, maybe rad onc, med onc, anesthesia, dermatology, cardiology, so most likely internal med with a fellowship. We also have a baby and are working on having another baby.
ACOM
Pros:
+ Wife makes lots of money
+ COL is very low
+ Beach is about 1.5 hours away for my wife's sake
+ Cheapest Housing
Cons:
- DO school, so more difficult time attaining more competitive specialties/residencies
- Dothan, AL is lacking some things and the food is geared towards heart attacks.
- Rotations can be all over the place.
Tulane (WL)
Pros:
+ Amazing city (great food, art, music, etc...)
+ Great airport for travel
+ P/F but with placement in tertiles (closest to true P/F out of all my choices)
+ Best opportunities for residency out of all my choices
+ No mandatory attendance for most things (except anatomy) so can be home with my children studying
Cons:
- Most expensive school out of all
- Housing for our purposes would be most expensive
- Students that I connected with and said I could reach out to them have all been flaky
- Wife may have to take a nominal pay cut
NEOMED (WL)
Pros:
+ Everyone I've interacted with has been great
+ I like the cold weather (my wife doesn't)
+ Closest to my wife's family
+ Good international airports nearbyish
+ Best outdoor recreation out of all options (I like hiking, running, biking, etc...)
+ Learning style is probably my favorite except the mandatory class time from 8-12pm everyday.
+ Wife should make the same or more money as she does currently.
Cons:
- Not a well known school outside of Ohio even though it has been around for ~50 years.
- Wife won't like the weather and she would have to work far from NEOMED (~ 30 minutes - 1 hr)
- 1st year tuition is insane for OOS (more than Tulane) but can get in-state tuition for years 2, 3, and 4 which makes it very cheap
If it were just me and had no one else to think about, I think Tulane would be my #1 choice, then NEOMED, then ACOM. However, since it's not just me, this has become a difficult decision. It basically comes down to how to weigh my wife's best opportunity (great work/life balance and 4x salary elsewhere) vs. my best opportunity (best chance at residencies and flexibility of schedule) as they are unfortunately not in sync. Please weigh in and ask questions to help me make the right decision. I'm hopeful I will come off the waitlist at both options with movement starting next week.
ACOM
Pros:
+ Wife makes lots of money
+ COL is very low
+ Beach is about 1.5 hours away for my wife's sake
+ Cheapest Housing
Cons:
- DO school, so more difficult time attaining more competitive specialties/residencies
- Dothan, AL is lacking some things and the food is geared towards heart attacks.
- Rotations can be all over the place.
Tulane (WL)
Pros:
+ Amazing city (great food, art, music, etc...)
+ Great airport for travel
+ P/F but with placement in tertiles (closest to true P/F out of all my choices)
+ Best opportunities for residency out of all my choices
+ No mandatory attendance for most things (except anatomy) so can be home with my children studying
Cons:
- Most expensive school out of all
- Housing for our purposes would be most expensive
- Students that I connected with and said I could reach out to them have all been flaky
- Wife may have to take a nominal pay cut
NEOMED (WL)
Pros:
+ Everyone I've interacted with has been great
+ I like the cold weather (my wife doesn't)
+ Closest to my wife's family
+ Good international airports nearbyish
+ Best outdoor recreation out of all options (I like hiking, running, biking, etc...)
+ Learning style is probably my favorite except the mandatory class time from 8-12pm everyday.
+ Wife should make the same or more money as she does currently.
Cons:
- Not a well known school outside of Ohio even though it has been around for ~50 years.
- Wife won't like the weather and she would have to work far from NEOMED (~ 30 minutes - 1 hr)
- 1st year tuition is insane for OOS (more than Tulane) but can get in-state tuition for years 2, 3, and 4 which makes it very cheap
If it were just me and had no one else to think about, I think Tulane would be my #1 choice, then NEOMED, then ACOM. However, since it's not just me, this has become a difficult decision. It basically comes down to how to weigh my wife's best opportunity (great work/life balance and 4x salary elsewhere) vs. my best opportunity (best chance at residencies and flexibility of schedule) as they are unfortunately not in sync. Please weigh in and ask questions to help me make the right decision. I'm hopeful I will come off the waitlist at both options with movement starting next week.
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