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So, there are a few groups of people in my life who I haven't told about my med school endeavor:
My parents and extended family
My coworkers
I wasn't sure if I'd get in or how far I'd get and only told people who I knew would be supportive and not ask a lot of anxious questions.
But now I feel stuck and unsure how to tell people. I don't want to now make them feel shut out of my life... Anyone have any advice, maybe having been in the receiving end of family news or having had to give news?
The only similar situation was when I had to tell people I was pregnant. That was awkward for me, too.....
I say wait until you graduate and be like "Surprise, I'm a doctor, people!" Haha
Really though, if you have a long term plan they can wrap their heads around, that could help - even if it's not what you end up doing. Like "I want to be a pediatrician and join a practice in a suburb" or "I'm going to be a plastic surgeon - pray for my soul." Haha ok I shouldn't post while I'm on dilaudid. Just tell them when you're ready and be confident.