Even the openly biased papers on both sides of the issues have nowhere near the track record of sham reporters and even pure story fabrication over the last few years as the NYT. I'm really not sure why anyone still reads it beyond the desire to sit in a coffee shop and look smart. There's better reporting on Yahoo. While I don't always agree with him, but Jubak creams this guy.
I read the NYT online, in the privacy of my own home and it is one of multiple sources I use to get my news. Sorry, no "showing off" at the coffee shop and "looking smart". I think people 'round these parts think I'm smart due to the fact I'm Asian.
I also read the Wall Street Journal, Washington Post (sometimes), ABC News. I don't consider the NYT any more biased or sham reporting than any of the other outlets. In fact, I'd say the quality of reporting is pretty good even if I don't always agree with their views. I don't feel that I have to agree with the news source view to appreciate a well written piece of article.
I feel that every news source will have some geographic biases. I live in a very conservative area and the reporting here is very biased towards the locals' cultural sensibilities. The WSJ is very biased towards management and while I don't always agree with their viewpoints (especially their editorials), I still read it as a primary source because it still offers good writing and a nuanced articles lacking in my local papers.
The NYT writer in the OP is probably just writing what a lot of people think of themselves----frugal people who 'somehow' ends up with wasteful spending habits. Also, everyone's idea of splurging is different. Before we start criticizing other people's budgets, it may be wise to look at our own spending habits.
For me, I'm surprised so many students are willing to go into deep debt so that they don't have to live at home and be 'independent' while attending medical school while I am laughed at for "not cutting the apron strings" since I live at home to save money. I doubt those that choose to live away from home would consider themselves wasteful, yet I'm sure if those same students had their budgets opened to the public, plenty of people would criticize them for not utilizing the home option to save money.
Again, everyone's idea of what is financially doable is different. I know that, despite my self proclaimed frugality, I've done things and purchased stuff that I'm not proud of. That's why I try to refrain from complaining about others. I figure everyone has their frugality limit. For some, it's living at home. For others, it's nice clothes.
Although I'd point out the picture of the writer's 'half a million dollar mansion' in the article is pretty crappy. The guy is hardly living it up in his 'mansion'. Around here, the house would probably go for $150-500k in a nice neighborhood. The guy lives in a very expensive area, although I can't blame him if he has kids who attends the local public school.