If I were in your situation, I would choose Barry. I am currently a 4th year student there and there are quite a bit of students who live at home and travel an hour plus to get home. There are ways to study while driving. Record the lectures. You can read questions and answer them and then listen to those in the car. You can use that time to explain concepts out loud so you learn the material better. Don't listen to the nay sayers. You are going to have free time to see family and enjoy your life, not around finals and multiple test weeks though.
I have met many students from all of the schools while on my externships and we all agree it doesn't really matter what school you went to, rather how you applied yourself at your school. We all use the same books, journals, ...etc. Go where you will enjoy and where your life would be less hectic and stressful. In your case with your family so close and having grown up in Southern Florida, I would say Barry would be a good fit for you.
As far as the anatomy lab, I saw the old one and also the renovated one. It is nice and you will learn anatomy while inside of it. Having the best anatomy lab will not make you memorize the material better. Hard work, a good study partner, and repetition will allow you to learn anatomy.