Well, basically I have been friends with this girl that I've known for three years now and have been pretty close friends for over a year. I thought she was just a really good friend of mine until just a few weeks ago that I realized that I had developed feelings for her. However, she is in the same group of friends that I am in and I have absolutely no idea how she feels about me. I found some signs that may indicate that she does but have no idea whether she actually does have feelings for me or she is just being a good friend.
In the fall, she is going to be starting medical school and I will be starting pharmacy school an hour away from her. We both plan on doing residencies after obtaining our degrees as well. Income isn't an issue since we both value family as long as we both have a career and can spend time with family.
I was wanting to go see her and tell her how I feel before our school starts but hesistated because I couldn't find the right moment to do so. On top
of that, a mutual friend had said that she doesn't have any feelings for me but I would rather hear directly than from a third part. What would you guys do? Should I just tell her how I feel? Should I just wait it out and see how it goes? Or just do nothing and stay friends? I don't like the third option as I believe no matter what you have to have friendship in order to have anything else. Thanks SDN!
In the fall, she is going to be starting medical school and I will be starting pharmacy school an hour away from her. We both plan on doing residencies after obtaining our degrees as well. Income isn't an issue since we both value family as long as we both have a career and can spend time with family.
I was wanting to go see her and tell her how I feel before our school starts but hesistated because I couldn't find the right moment to do so. On top
of that, a mutual friend had said that she doesn't have any feelings for me but I would rather hear directly than from a third part. What would you guys do? Should I just tell her how I feel? Should I just wait it out and see how it goes? Or just do nothing and stay friends? I don't like the third option as I believe no matter what you have to have friendship in order to have anything else. Thanks SDN!