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Background - I've been volunteering with an OT at a psychiatric hospital for the past few weeks working with kids/adolescents. There's a variety of illnesses and a few pasts involving molestations. Two of the molestations were with young kids - 5/7. While this is obviously sickening, they never truly broke me down. I think this was in part due to their behavior - they behaved mostly like kids having fun (mixing in some inappropriate sexual behavior and whatnot, but yeah).
We got a new patient today. He's already been to two other hospitals. Prior to commitment, he was raped by three adults. Since then, he's had severe anger/violence issues. He does a variety of awful things. I feel an utter lack of hope for him. He's only going to be committed for a few months, and I feel like he's just destined to molest/rape/murder sometime following release, ruining another person's life. I mean, it's not his fault - how can a ****ing child cope with being raped by three adults? How can anyone? I just can't help but feel that it would be better for society and himself if he were to just... die. I cried for the first time in something like six years, following his eval.
The overpowering sense of helplessness/hopelessness has subsided to an extent. This is mostly thanks to just telling my gf about it and having a fun session following his eval in which a kid who'd previously been very withdrawn had some great social experiences. I don't know how I would feel if that had not happened.
So how do you all come to handle these things? I can't think of anything even comparable in other fields of medicine other than maybe early onset Alzheimer's. Even young kids with metastasized cancer at least have the opportunity to live out the remainder of their lives with some degree of normal pleasure.
Edit: Info edited to increase anonymity of patient; just read T4C mod note.
We got a new patient today. He's already been to two other hospitals. Prior to commitment, he was raped by three adults. Since then, he's had severe anger/violence issues. He does a variety of awful things. I feel an utter lack of hope for him. He's only going to be committed for a few months, and I feel like he's just destined to molest/rape/murder sometime following release, ruining another person's life. I mean, it's not his fault - how can a ****ing child cope with being raped by three adults? How can anyone? I just can't help but feel that it would be better for society and himself if he were to just... die. I cried for the first time in something like six years, following his eval.
The overpowering sense of helplessness/hopelessness has subsided to an extent. This is mostly thanks to just telling my gf about it and having a fun session following his eval in which a kid who'd previously been very withdrawn had some great social experiences. I don't know how I would feel if that had not happened.
So how do you all come to handle these things? I can't think of anything even comparable in other fields of medicine other than maybe early onset Alzheimer's. Even young kids with metastasized cancer at least have the opportunity to live out the remainder of their lives with some degree of normal pleasure.
Edit: Info edited to increase anonymity of patient; just read T4C mod note.
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