Your question is a very complex one and not something that can be easily answered in an internet forum. With that caveat, let me try to answer your questions:
For treatment? We are doing the best we can with the knowledge we have. The FDA has been justly criticized in the past for not approving anticancer drugs quickly enough.
have we done all that we can research-wise?
Well, cancer research in general is a hot and well-funded field. However, research on prevention is lagging considerably behind that of therapeutics. There are several reasons for this: 1. Cancer prevention research is hard to do and takes a long time, 2. There is a lot more $$ in therapeutics than prevention, 3. Therapeutics have clearer (and much shorter) endpoints than prevention.
Also, some areas of cancer (such as lung cancer) are funded less than they deserve (based on death statistics). This can be due to social stigma/myths (only smokers get lung cancer and they deserve it) or perceived "sexiness" of the field.
have we done all that we can research-wise?
See above.
Is there any viable deviation from the accepted prescription of chemo/radiation?
Cancer is a very diverse disease and therapy generally consists of a combination of radiation, chemotherapy, and/or surgery. The exact sequence and types of therapy vary depending on the type of cancer and the stage. Sometimes no intervention is necessary (e.g. early stage prostate cancer in an 80 year-old can be followed).