Long-time lurker here, but just decided to create this account because it's eating me up inside and things are very hard for me right now, I'm overwhelmed like I have never been in my life... Hoping for some advice and experiences from you all.
I very recently got licensed and started practicing... and holy crap has it been unbelievably hard for me. I finished school a while ago in a different country, so it took a while (years) to get my DVM license in the U.S. I'm struggling with the medicine itself, but also with being inefficient. I struggle to make decisions because I don't really trust my own judgement, and because out of options A, B, and C I don't know which one is appropriate. This even goes for "simple" things that everyone just seems to understand and treat so effortlessly, like a vomiting or diarrhea case. On paper, I feel like I'm not a terrible veterinarian knowledge-wise. But in practice? I feel like I always have a deer-in-the-headlights look. I know mentorship is important starting out, and I feel like I can ask about anything and others will help and not make me feel stupid... it's just that I really thought I could handle more than a simple vaccine appointment and could handle a simple case without asking 20 questions to the other DVMs, who just like everyone else already have enough on their plate. It also feels like a number of technicians are annoyed at my inefficiency and lack of ease with decision-making. So add that on top of everything else...
I try so hard. I really do. I have books I keep outside the exam rooms, I look things up in between appointments, and I try my hardest to at least do no harm and help a little bit. But many times I feel like I did not help the problem at all, or at least not in the grand scheme of things. I get home exhausted after 12 hours and look up things I saw during the day, but then wonder about all the possible outcomes and have a hard time falling asleep, only to do it again the next day. I review the notes from other doctors and their cases just so I can get a feel for their thought process, and everyone just seems so competent and like they know their stuff although they might have been out for just a few months, with such great treatment plans and differentials and next steps... and here I am like do I need bloodwork or xrays more? And then I get results back and everything is normal, I get stuck because I'm stumped, don't have time while at work to look extensively at next steps, and then just get frustrated and stressed out, feeling anyone could have done a better job than I did handling this. It's just exhausting day in and day out... and it's only been a few weeks. How can I do this for the rest of my life?
A traditional internship is not an option for me due to many reasons (financial, emotional, extreme time commitment, etc.), and I doubt any employer will have any sort of sympathy for my inefficiency for more than a few months. I really want clinical practice to work out for me, I don't really want an office job or a non-traditional use for my degree, but I question if I'm ever going to be decent enough at some point in this field. My plan of eventually moving on to ER within a year or so is looking like the dumbest idea ever now, because I know that brings its own set of challenges. I'm just so lost and stressed out. Just like everyone else, I have bills to pay and responsibilities while being the sole breadwinner at home right now, and I can't just not do anything and have to keep going no matter what, but at what cost? Have any of you felt this overwhelmed starting out? How do I get a handle on it and become better at this? Just the thought of feeling anything like this for the rest of my life makes my chest feel heavy, and I don't know where to turn or what to do.
I very recently got licensed and started practicing... and holy crap has it been unbelievably hard for me. I finished school a while ago in a different country, so it took a while (years) to get my DVM license in the U.S. I'm struggling with the medicine itself, but also with being inefficient. I struggle to make decisions because I don't really trust my own judgement, and because out of options A, B, and C I don't know which one is appropriate. This even goes for "simple" things that everyone just seems to understand and treat so effortlessly, like a vomiting or diarrhea case. On paper, I feel like I'm not a terrible veterinarian knowledge-wise. But in practice? I feel like I always have a deer-in-the-headlights look. I know mentorship is important starting out, and I feel like I can ask about anything and others will help and not make me feel stupid... it's just that I really thought I could handle more than a simple vaccine appointment and could handle a simple case without asking 20 questions to the other DVMs, who just like everyone else already have enough on their plate. It also feels like a number of technicians are annoyed at my inefficiency and lack of ease with decision-making. So add that on top of everything else...
I try so hard. I really do. I have books I keep outside the exam rooms, I look things up in between appointments, and I try my hardest to at least do no harm and help a little bit. But many times I feel like I did not help the problem at all, or at least not in the grand scheme of things. I get home exhausted after 12 hours and look up things I saw during the day, but then wonder about all the possible outcomes and have a hard time falling asleep, only to do it again the next day. I review the notes from other doctors and their cases just so I can get a feel for their thought process, and everyone just seems so competent and like they know their stuff although they might have been out for just a few months, with such great treatment plans and differentials and next steps... and here I am like do I need bloodwork or xrays more? And then I get results back and everything is normal, I get stuck because I'm stumped, don't have time while at work to look extensively at next steps, and then just get frustrated and stressed out, feeling anyone could have done a better job than I did handling this. It's just exhausting day in and day out... and it's only been a few weeks. How can I do this for the rest of my life?
A traditional internship is not an option for me due to many reasons (financial, emotional, extreme time commitment, etc.), and I doubt any employer will have any sort of sympathy for my inefficiency for more than a few months. I really want clinical practice to work out for me, I don't really want an office job or a non-traditional use for my degree, but I question if I'm ever going to be decent enough at some point in this field. My plan of eventually moving on to ER within a year or so is looking like the dumbest idea ever now, because I know that brings its own set of challenges. I'm just so lost and stressed out. Just like everyone else, I have bills to pay and responsibilities while being the sole breadwinner at home right now, and I can't just not do anything and have to keep going no matter what, but at what cost? Have any of you felt this overwhelmed starting out? How do I get a handle on it and become better at this? Just the thought of feeling anything like this for the rest of my life makes my chest feel heavy, and I don't know where to turn or what to do.