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thanks for reading this and sharing your thoughts. i wrote it stream of consciousness and didn't really edit it.. i figured it would be more honest from the core. so please excuse the lack of direction.
since residency started, i just haven't felt quite like myself.
i try to remember that this is a somewhat natural response to stress.
but i am starting to not buy my reasoning.
when i'm not working, which seems rare these days, i find that i am more attracted to doing things that are high intensity... and not really investing time in relationships, in my self, or in most of the things that have brought me a sense of well being in the past.
at first it was really fun; being in a new city, meeting new people, going out all the time. but now it's getting real bizarre because i am losing touch with the things i value most. all the positive energy i had not too long ago is hard to locate now.
i have always thought that inpatient medicine is not what i would do 100% of the time. but as i feel more disconnected from myself, i am afraid that i will be sucked in to doing some random job because my creativity has evaporated.
a part of me thinks this is all so silly. i could just start working out again, eating better, being more grateful for all that i have, connecting with people who are in to the things that i used to enjoy.
there are many things that i love about residency. but the feelings of disconnection and stagnation are hard to shake. and i have the sense that things would feel a lot better if i could.. i guess i am looking for ways to accept my life situation a little more gracefully.
i really wonder what your responses will be.
since residency started, i just haven't felt quite like myself.
i try to remember that this is a somewhat natural response to stress.
but i am starting to not buy my reasoning.
when i'm not working, which seems rare these days, i find that i am more attracted to doing things that are high intensity... and not really investing time in relationships, in my self, or in most of the things that have brought me a sense of well being in the past.
at first it was really fun; being in a new city, meeting new people, going out all the time. but now it's getting real bizarre because i am losing touch with the things i value most. all the positive energy i had not too long ago is hard to locate now.
i have always thought that inpatient medicine is not what i would do 100% of the time. but as i feel more disconnected from myself, i am afraid that i will be sucked in to doing some random job because my creativity has evaporated.
a part of me thinks this is all so silly. i could just start working out again, eating better, being more grateful for all that i have, connecting with people who are in to the things that i used to enjoy.
there are many things that i love about residency. but the feelings of disconnection and stagnation are hard to shake. and i have the sense that things would feel a lot better if i could.. i guess i am looking for ways to accept my life situation a little more gracefully.
i really wonder what your responses will be.