Just an update - things are picking up a little, but not much.
I have a couple of pet peeves about my current situation and need some advice on how to handle it.
1. My 'partner' wants to retire to part-time over the next year. He doesn't like to see many patients a day (his preference). The office staff will field calls from his patients and offer an appointment with my partner in 4 months or with ("the new doc") me in a week. Invariably, the patient will choose to wait four months. Am I out of line to suggest that the office staff just schedule the patient with me rather than give them a choice? The transition has to occur at some time.
2. For patients (some are his former patients and some are the former patients of his prior partner) who choose to see me. I have been waiting on hospital privileges to operate. I've built up a modest list of cataract patients. Lost a couple to other providers because they couldn't wait. Now, that I can schedule surgery - a good 30-40% of these patients want my partner to do the surgery. Mind you, he is a good surgeon, but still does extracaps. I, of course, cannot simply say that phaco is better. Am I wrong to demand (well, demand is too strong of a word) that I have the first crack at these surgeries? My partner keeps telling me that he wants to cut back on his surgeries (and I believe him), so that I would eventually inherit the great majority of surgical cases. Should I just have some patience and hold out a little longer?
I hope someone has been in a similar predicament. I feel like a second class physician and do not feel that the office staff 'sells' me very well to patients.
I feel that if I do not say something, nothing will change (because no one is looking out for me besides myself!). But, I do not want to destroy my chances of partnership (just an associate now).