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First of all..I can't believe this thread is still ranting on. Second..haters will always hate. So please, keep hating. I'm not going to comment anymore on the virtues/vices of why or why I may not deserve a BMW. Like I said in one of my earlier posts, it's clearly subjective from ones background.
Agree about the background part. I grew up in an upper middle class family and got a car for my sixteenth birthday. It wasn't a BMW but it was a car and it was better than what 90% of my friends got which in most cases was 1) a beater or 2) nothing. My parents had set conditions I had to meet to earn the priv of getting a car and I met them. So I'm sure I thought I earned it and deserved it. Hard to recall because it's been 20 years!!!
My parents' economic situation changed a lot and after I moved to a larger city I had some friends who were substantially richer than I had ever dreamed of being. So I was the one who eloped to save money on a wedding while my friends got 50K weddings and new houses from their parents as wedding gifts. That's life...
Now my husband and I are back in the position of having more a lot more money than most of our peers. How we got it is a sad, tragic story and I wouldn't use the word "earn" or say that we "deserve" it, but I'd hope no one would begrudge us that money... but there is probably some jealous hater out there who would, because that's just how people are.