Think of it as a multiple choice question:
What do you want:
A) nice stuff (home furnish, toys, clothes, etc)
B) nice cars
C) nice house
D) travel often or expensive
E) high cost of living area (metro, beach, etc... and you still have to pick nice house as another choice, not automatic with HCOL area)
F) kids (pick this twice if many kids or high standard of living/school for them)
G) partner stays home with kids and doesn't work awhile/ever
H) high lifestyle (dining, shows, dating, etc)
I) early retirement vs avg
J) weekends off
...So, if you're a DPM with an average pay job, pick 3.
If you have a lower than avg job, maybe pick only 2.
If you have a higher than avg job, pick 4 or even 5 (but almost surely lose J at that point).
If you are single or have a financially competent partner, stay at that number.
If you have a partner who earns good money, pick another 1 or 2.
If you have a low earner partner whose standard you boost, subtract 1 choice.
Eg: I have an average pay job and (J) comes with that, so I get 3 choices + high earning partner. I pick choices A, H, I... partner adds C, D, helps with I.
It should also quickly become obvious you can't have your partner stay at home, have 3 kids in private school, travel internationally, live in a castle and drive his-and-her BMWs on standard DPM associate salary. That fantasy will crash and burn.
I think the expectations versus reality applies as much for podiatry as any other profession. Sure, we are "doctors" and it's a doctorate degree, but the mean/median earning power is not in line with MDs. Still, many MDs also face these same choices above... perhaps they just get same or one or two or three more depending on their specialty and loan burden. Too many people doing MD or DO or DPM or others think they will finish residency and be able to pick "ALL OF THE ABOVE," but that's just not how it is.
We have to remember that there are millions of teachers, tradesmen, etc etc who also got up early to go to work today... and would be happy to pick even one or two of those things. Sure, we went to school longer, but it's not as if they weren't working those years while we were partying after midterm exams on borrowed money. The things that are awesome and free - for anyone - are personal health/fitness and personal relationships, though. Those enrich my life more than anything costly, and anyone can have those (unless maybe they're too tired or burnt out chasing $$$).
And yeah, as malleolusman said, I could bump my income in PP by maybe 20, 30, even 50% if I wanted to do a bunch of questionable path, DME, etc. I could also probably do the same income bump by looking for a hospital gig where I'm back to to being on call roughly every third weekend and evening, but you also want to feel good about and take care of yourself at the end of the day. There are always choices to be made; nobody has it all - and if they do, they might still not be happy.