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Yeah no one forced you to put your kids in private school. No one forced you to buy an expensive home in an expensive area that requires 100k/yr property taxes. Everyone in society benefits from a well educated population which requires public schools. Some "life is not fair" is going to be 100% your own decisions.Life is not fair. I accept the bad breaks and move on. I take the good breaks and maximize it. My 3 kids are in private school and never sniffed public for the past 12 yrs. I paid well over 100K/yr in property tax on my properties with most going to educating other people's kids. That is a big "life is not fair" for me.
Everyone is feeling the affects of inflation. Its a combination of increasing costs and also increasing consumerism.
When our grandparents were getting out of college, they did not have expenses that most current college grads expect. Big house, New car, internet, cell phone, uber eats, food delivery, exotic travels, sporting events, the amazon consumerism tax, smart phones, laptop for everyone. So yea, income overall has outpaced inflation BUT we live in a different world. If we had the same expenses as our grandparents, we all would feel rich.
Even docs would be living in 2K sqft home, have 2 cars. If I had what most docs had 40 yrs ago with my income, I would be better off than them. But we have increased in consumerism and its an expected life expense for docs.
If your doc friend's kids are in club sports and private lessons, its hard to tell your kid that they can't have those experiences/advantages if you can afford it.
I believe the current "life is not fair" are
1. Student loans
2. Medical bills
3. Housing costs
4. Child care costs
These 4 things are out of control in this country and I don't see any of it changing until one of these systems implodes. (My bet is healthcare first although student loans is a close runner up).
These things can easily eat an entire budget. Some 21 year olds will get their first apartment and very quickly realize they can't buy lattes every day, can't order uber eats 3x/week, cant afford fancy (or even any) vacations, can't get the latest iphone, or buy concert tickets. I bet there are many docs who will be funding their kids lifestyles throughout their 20s. I just hope it's not me, but it's tough to model good behavior. I already did the whole delayed gratification thing and I like paying for convenience and nice things now.