*posting in both threads in the hopes of getting a good variety of readers
Hi all,
I was hoping to get some input from this community surrounding a big decision I have to make. I have dreamt of becoming a physician since I was a child, and over the course of a few years as I’ve been applying to medical school I have also fallen in love with the mental health field. I work alongside psychiatrists, clinical psychology PhDs, LCSWs, and LMFTs every day and I am so inspired by all of their work. I was recently lucky enough to be accepted into an osteopathic medical school, however it is on the other side of the country from my family. I am still on the waitlist for a school closer to home but there are no guarantees.
I am torn between the choice of becoming a physician (I imagine I would end up becoming a psychiatrist) or becoming a licensed therapist. There are many pros and cons to both sides. I have younger siblings with very serious, progressive health conditions and just overall place a high value on time spent with loved ones and maintaining personal wellness. I worry that I would lose those things if I chose medicine.
I really want to study intensely to the highest level of education I can obtain, to be a leader within a team and make clinical decisions and diagnosis, to have the science component, and to partner alongside patients through their highs and lows. I want to be surrounded by people who are smarter than me and inspire me. There are obviously enormous salary differences between the two options, and that does factor in when I think about being able to take care of my family comfortably and have a family of my own some day.
I think clinical psychology is off the table for me because there are a lot of requirements I don’t have (I did cancer biology research not psychology research, I’m missing psychology coursework) and the sheer competitiveness of vying for a limited number of spots. PsyD I just simply can’t afford. I have also considered the NP/PA route but I just can’t get behind the short training time, I know I don’t want to work as a nurse, and those programs have requirements I don’t have as well.
I could see myself becoming a really great LCSW, I’m passionate about social justice work, and I know I would still be helping people. There is much less toxicity in the field and they definitely share some of my values of family time and wellness.
When I look back on my life, I doubt I will say I wish I had spent less time with my loved ones, traveling, and enjoying free time. However, I also worry I would look back and feel regret that I didn’t take the leap of faith in medicine and reach my full potential.
Lots of rambling I know, thanks for sticking with me. I’m wondering if anyone has any immediate thoughts or reactions? Do you wish you had taken your education further or done less? Thank you in advance for your help!
Hi all,
I was hoping to get some input from this community surrounding a big decision I have to make. I have dreamt of becoming a physician since I was a child, and over the course of a few years as I’ve been applying to medical school I have also fallen in love with the mental health field. I work alongside psychiatrists, clinical psychology PhDs, LCSWs, and LMFTs every day and I am so inspired by all of their work. I was recently lucky enough to be accepted into an osteopathic medical school, however it is on the other side of the country from my family. I am still on the waitlist for a school closer to home but there are no guarantees.
I am torn between the choice of becoming a physician (I imagine I would end up becoming a psychiatrist) or becoming a licensed therapist. There are many pros and cons to both sides. I have younger siblings with very serious, progressive health conditions and just overall place a high value on time spent with loved ones and maintaining personal wellness. I worry that I would lose those things if I chose medicine.
I really want to study intensely to the highest level of education I can obtain, to be a leader within a team and make clinical decisions and diagnosis, to have the science component, and to partner alongside patients through their highs and lows. I want to be surrounded by people who are smarter than me and inspire me. There are obviously enormous salary differences between the two options, and that does factor in when I think about being able to take care of my family comfortably and have a family of my own some day.
I think clinical psychology is off the table for me because there are a lot of requirements I don’t have (I did cancer biology research not psychology research, I’m missing psychology coursework) and the sheer competitiveness of vying for a limited number of spots. PsyD I just simply can’t afford. I have also considered the NP/PA route but I just can’t get behind the short training time, I know I don’t want to work as a nurse, and those programs have requirements I don’t have as well.
I could see myself becoming a really great LCSW, I’m passionate about social justice work, and I know I would still be helping people. There is much less toxicity in the field and they definitely share some of my values of family time and wellness.
When I look back on my life, I doubt I will say I wish I had spent less time with my loved ones, traveling, and enjoying free time. However, I also worry I would look back and feel regret that I didn’t take the leap of faith in medicine and reach my full potential.
Lots of rambling I know, thanks for sticking with me. I’m wondering if anyone has any immediate thoughts or reactions? Do you wish you had taken your education further or done less? Thank you in advance for your help!