BTW, given your situation, I would seriously consider getting rid of the pets.
I've had my two small dogs for 10 years and they're family, one of the very few best part of my life so " getting rid " of them would never happen.
The goal is to pay the correct amount of taxes throughout the year so that when April 15th rolls around you either owe or are refunded a small amount (<$1,000). What if you asked your accountant and tax lady how you should fill out your W-4 so that the amount of taxes either owed or refunded is kept to an absolute minimum this year?
That's my goal. Good idea, I'm going to ask her that.
First thing: Get a student loan plan. PSLF would be a great option for you.
My current job would qualify me for this IF it's still around in ten years.
Second thing: Boost income. A spousal income would help a lot, but a better paying job for you would help too.
Looking into moonlighting and husband is looking too.
Third thing: You have to live like a resident or worse, at least for a couple of years.
We are doing that.
Fourth thing: Stop buying stuff on credit.
We owe less than 275 on c/c.
Fifth thing: Relocating seems like a great option. Lower cost of living/income taxes will help. I'm sure there are cheaper places that are still okay allergy-wise.
Eventually we will
Thank you again for all the advices, I've certainly learned something . Btw, I need to ask again, is the new PAYE a proposal or a definite for next year available for all borrowers?