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Hey all! I have a question about how to approach an issue I am having with getting a letter of recommendation from a dentist. I have shadowed a prestigious oral surgeon and respect him highly. I am very non confrontational so it was hard as is to ask him for a letter in the first place, but a few months back, he agreed. I retook my DAT June 7th, so now I have time to actually work on my app. Thing is, the oral surgeon missed the interfolio deadline I have given him for my letter, which is seriously concerning to me. I sent him a follow up email to remind him, even making it easier for him by sending him a request via the AADSAS portal if he doesn't like interfolio. Still no email back. This was DAYS ago.
When I spoke to him last in person (a week or so ago), he said in passing that he wants to help write my personal statement and to meet in JULY to work on my app. NOOOO!!!!! I used the new bootcamp personal statement aid to help me refine my draft, and my statement is in a really good place and I am very satisfied with the one I currently have. I am frightened that he has the impression that I am lost and have nothing written, when in reality I legit just need his letter. That is the only thing stopping me from submitting, and I know it sounds like I am venting but I am just at a loss for words...in that email I sent him, I let him know my whole app is complete including my personal statement and now I am afraid he is taking it personally that I don't want his help on my personal statement? I can't read people like that, so now I am just left in my own thoughts driving myself nuts. Again, I sent him an email just a few days back, so I feel I have done everything feasibly in my power. How would you approach the situation? Thank you in advance!
When I spoke to him last in person (a week or so ago), he said in passing that he wants to help write my personal statement and to meet in JULY to work on my app. NOOOO!!!!! I used the new bootcamp personal statement aid to help me refine my draft, and my statement is in a really good place and I am very satisfied with the one I currently have. I am frightened that he has the impression that I am lost and have nothing written, when in reality I legit just need his letter. That is the only thing stopping me from submitting, and I know it sounds like I am venting but I am just at a loss for words...in that email I sent him, I let him know my whole app is complete including my personal statement and now I am afraid he is taking it personally that I don't want his help on my personal statement? I can't read people like that, so now I am just left in my own thoughts driving myself nuts. Again, I sent him an email just a few days back, so I feel I have done everything feasibly in my power. How would you approach the situation? Thank you in advance!