... And remember you are highly trained professional who has sacrificed a lot in the pursuit of your goal and you deserve only the very best that this world has to offer. I wish you the very best of luck. Do not let a "temporary" setback, break your spirit....
Well, then I guess I am a selfish p-ick. Being 0 for 3 in your job hunt is a setback, but it's hardly apocalyptic. I have been rejected from dozens and dozens of jobs over the years. My friends in other fields probably from more. So what!?
Again, I think this type of "woe-is-me" attitude can only exist in the "privileged" bubble of a world you call medicine that some of you have literally grown up in and don't know any better. I don't hear any of my architect, engineer, lawyer, nursing, etc. friends whine about how they're not getting the perfect job. Oh, they complain from time to time, for sure. But they certainly don't throw up their hands in defeat. Or worse, lay the blame on everything and everyone else. They take a s**tty job, get some experience, then they move on. I fault the N.American system of medical education for encouraging, nay, facilitating this nonsense. Just because you get a 29 on your MCAT and get into medical school does not make you a medical genius with carte blanche to become a 7-figure partner straight out of residency. It starts early... 'Will this be on the test?'... 'Where is the hand-out for this class?'... 'I think you're wrong about question 54! I deserve 100% on this quiz, not the 98% you gave me! This is BS!'... 'That's not fair! You can't ask that! That was not covered in lecture!'... Sound familiar?
Pathology probably magnifies the problem, it being, to some extent manned by conflict-avoiding type B-'s, "lifestyle-choice, phew-thank-god-I-don't-have-to-work-with-patients", personalitites who wouldn't know how to give out a decent constructive eval to save their life and allow clinicians to walk all over them, bing nothing more than glorified techs. You reap what you sow.
Sorry if no one has pointed this out to you (and here I don't mean [just] you specifically, I mean the collective "you"), but perhaps "they're just not that into you". Perhaps you're not the hot sh0t you think you are. There are good residents and there are great residents, and then there are the sub-par ones, the ones that should have gone into another field perhaps, like sous chef at Chili's. And don't kid yourself that that's not the truth. I see it everyday. And I know you do, too. Unless you're in denial. Or, perhaps you're one of the many sub-par residents who delude themselves into thinking that they are god's gift to the field? I see that too.
So if you think that you are a great resident, and yet you're getting rejected, perhaps you should go back and re-read some of your evals, or perhaps ask someone you can actually confide in to lay down the truth for you. Perhaps you actually need to work harder.
Funny though, and this has been pointed out by others, the *real* great residents have no problems securing positions. This is anecdotal, I know, but most of my colleagues that I would describe as good to great had no problems, the vast majority getting exactly what they wanted. One opted to take something "temporary" awaiting a better option due to narrow "geographic" restriction. As for the ones I would describe as sub-par (and that's being nice), many of them still got exactly what they wanted. That is what amazes me! Bad pathologists getting good jobs.
I know we all laugh a the joke "Q: What do you call someone who graduated at the bottom of their med school class? A: Doctor." It's funny, no? I hope that's not true of fields like aviation, or rocket science, or SWAT, etc. ie. "Q: What do you call someone who graduated at the bottom of their take off and landing class? A: Pilot?" Haha! "Q: What do you call someone who graduated at the bottom of their sharp-shooting class? A: Sniper?" Hihi! Still funny? So, would you actually allow *any* doctor to treat you or your family? Any of your classmates or former classmates? They are all equally capable? Really? STFU! Me, I'm just not that into you.