Corpo was right when he said " towards the end of your residency, you go on more interviews with people you don't really care about and, somehow everywhere you go you are vaguely reminded of those back-stabbing college "friends" that said to your face "congratulations" when you got accepted to Top Choice School of Medicine, but then discussed how much they hated you when you walked away with their next breaths. Guess what? These are your professional "colleagues" now, AND your future "partners".
I see many of these people in this forum.
I just wonder, how people think these days. Here we have a young man asking for information, totally transparent in his question. If you truly listen you could hear that he did not come from an advantaged family, and not have much support growing up. What does he get from some people in this forum!
a) some give guidance with respect
b) some are tottaley rude and abnoxious
c) and some tottaley discoureging him.
What the heck is this?
I think he can be a GREAT anesthesiologist because he is a SELF MADE MAN. He did not depend on mammy and daddy to send him to great schools to do well.
He knows his strength and weaknesses and he can focus on his weakness (math) and he can be great.
As for the sight of blood (mrg), I used to faint every time I saw blood, or felt blood. I mean hit the ground, and I did that at least four times. Then, I got used to it. And if I can get used to it, then ANYONE CAN.
Arch
Yes I did. He was pretty harsh on you but did not resort to outright profanity (plus he put the smiley thingey at the end of his post).
Look at it this way:
This is a professional forum that is filled with people who have been busting their humps for YEARS.
You are a young kid who hasn't even taken the SAT and who strolls in here all of a sudden wanting to be a million dollar "gas man".
In no less than an hour and sixteen minutes you decided you were on the "wrong train".
Arch, sorry but this is so disapponting to hear coming from you.
Since you admit he is a young 'Kid' , don't you think
1) the professionals should be good role models for him not visa versa
2) Its ok for others to put him down (including statment you made) and he cannot respond!!! this is age discrimination!!!
What happened to being appropriate rather than calling him "gas man". And after all the put downs, don't you think he would want to say he want to change his mind, to save face!!
Thank God for some of you who were understanding and acting like mentors.
Mr. mrg no one can tell what your limits are or set your limits for you, only you can. Some told you to shadow a doctor and see what he does and this is great advice.
Just do it