I've read tons of information on how to be able to juggle your personal life with your medical schooling and career. Unfortunately, doctors have a much greater chance of divorce and other personal problems etc because of the sheer amount of time that is away from your family, friends, etc due to your job.
I was hoping to find out from medical students, residents, fellows, attendings, etc what is the best advice for maintaining a healthy and happy balance between friends, loved ones, children, spouses, etc and be successful at medical school and when you become a practicing physician?
The reason why I ask is, I have several personal physicians, my internist, allergist, and dermatologist have had long happy/successful marriages with kids and seem to have a really good/happy balance between their personal and professional lives, yet my urologist, neurologist, and surgeons have had multiple divorces, no kids, and do not seem to have a personal life. So as you can see, it seems to be a hit or a miss whether you'll have a happy/satisfying personal life as a doctor or do you think it has a lot to do with what specialties you go into???
I was hoping to find out from medical students, residents, fellows, attendings, etc what is the best advice for maintaining a healthy and happy balance between friends, loved ones, children, spouses, etc and be successful at medical school and when you become a practicing physician?
The reason why I ask is, I have several personal physicians, my internist, allergist, and dermatologist have had long happy/successful marriages with kids and seem to have a really good/happy balance between their personal and professional lives, yet my urologist, neurologist, and surgeons have had multiple divorces, no kids, and do not seem to have a personal life. So as you can see, it seems to be a hit or a miss whether you'll have a happy/satisfying personal life as a doctor or do you think it has a lot to do with what specialties you go into???