I have a senior who is making me nervous. I will be doing a thing ordered by the attending and he will just come out of nowhere with what I’m referring in my head to as “senior side quests”. Basically things that can wait until later. For example, we’ll have a patient waiting in the emergency room to come up to the floor and the attending will ask me to discharge someone quick and the senior will just came out of nowhere and be like, “I need you to schedule this patient’s follow-up.”
I said, “Sure, I’m just gonna finish up this discharge first, it is time sensitive and then I’ll do that right away.”
And he acted so offended I did not immediately drop everything to schedule a follow-up for a patient that is not leaving for a few days. Like almost an over the top reaction?
And I know it is not just me, the other intern basically hides all day so he can get his work done without this senior’s constant interruptions.
I’ve been sort of just ignoring the problem and trying to placate this senior while always keeping my attending’s directions first. But it is a hard balancing act.
And I can totally see this senior secretly hating that I don’t lick his boots all day and saying stuff about me.
He will sometimes tell me to do the complete opposite of what the attending said. And I double-check with the attending and the attending reconfirms their order (my attendings are pretty chill, I’m never nervous to ask questions) so I put in what the attending wants (and said twice now) and he gets mad at me. I never even say the senior said to do the other thing, I just pretend I’m the one asking so the senior does not even look bad. And he gets mad?
I know the general advice is keep your head down but isn’t the attending, being the boss, the one you should be most worried about? Any tips? I’m really a people-pleaser at heart so it is difficult for me to have a senior dislike me for doing what I’m supposed to be doing . . .
I said, “Sure, I’m just gonna finish up this discharge first, it is time sensitive and then I’ll do that right away.”
And he acted so offended I did not immediately drop everything to schedule a follow-up for a patient that is not leaving for a few days. Like almost an over the top reaction?
And I know it is not just me, the other intern basically hides all day so he can get his work done without this senior’s constant interruptions.
I’ve been sort of just ignoring the problem and trying to placate this senior while always keeping my attending’s directions first. But it is a hard balancing act.
And I can totally see this senior secretly hating that I don’t lick his boots all day and saying stuff about me.
He will sometimes tell me to do the complete opposite of what the attending said. And I double-check with the attending and the attending reconfirms their order (my attendings are pretty chill, I’m never nervous to ask questions) so I put in what the attending wants (and said twice now) and he gets mad at me. I never even say the senior said to do the other thing, I just pretend I’m the one asking so the senior does not even look bad. And he gets mad?
I know the general advice is keep your head down but isn’t the attending, being the boss, the one you should be most worried about? Any tips? I’m really a people-pleaser at heart so it is difficult for me to have a senior dislike me for doing what I’m supposed to be doing . . .