I was lucky that my parents paid for my entire undergrad education, and if it hadn’t been for the market crash of ‘08 they would have paid my entire vet school bill. So I graduated with *only* ~150k in debt.
my husband is a PhD who doesn’t earn a whole lot, but had a sizable savings account. We did the math, and paying it off ASAP was going to be in our best financial interest. So we continued to live like we were poor grad students for 4.5 years and paid upwards of $4000/month. Essentially we drained our checking’s account every month and put it into my student loans. I started vet school a little later so it meant that I didn’t really start enjoying life until into my thirties. But then it put us on good footing financially.
To get there, we made some sacrifices. It meant we didn’t have a wedding or engagement rings or wedding bands or a honeymoon. We did buy new cars (hubby didn’t have one at the time, and mine died at the end of vet school) but the most basic ones, nothing to be proud of. We didn’t even think about buying a house until my loans were almost paid off or starting a family until I hit advanced maternal age. For a couple of years, between the two of us we were driving 200 miles a day to commute in a densely populated state. I worked all day every day. Thankfully hubby had enough cash and I had a high enough salary that together we could buy a decent house at the end of it all (mortgage company preapproved me alone for only 40k or something ridiculously low like that - median home price in the state is >$400k).
we’re in a good place financially now debt free. But I was incredibly fortunate to have well off family and in laws who paid for a majority of my education and could bail us out if needed at any time. That being said, it still wasn’t easy for the first 5 years. We still don’t live extravagantly by any means, but we’re comfortable and don’t have major financial stresses on a day to day. And I’ve been able to take lower paying jobs for a better quality of life. Only way I can continue to enjoy this line of work. I would be way burnt out had I continued to work as I did my first 5 years out.