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After two years of blood, sweat, and tears (many, many tears), I am pleased to say I was accepted into a program! I will be starting at D'Youville College in Buffalo, NY this August. I've spent so much time trying to get into a program that I haven't actually considered what to do after I'm admitted. I have paid my deposit and filed my FAFSA, but that is the extent of what I have done.
Basically, there are three things to which I need advice on:
1.) How to look for an apartment and when to start the hunt? I live in a really rural area, currently still with my mother. I've never had my own apartment or lived in a city before. I don't know the first thing about trying to hunt for an apartment and what websites would be reliable sources of listings. Also, I don't plan to move until August. How soon can I realistically look for places? I'm eager to get started, but I feel like five months is too long.
2.) How in the world do I pay for grad school? Undergrad was so simple. I had a lot of scholarships that covered about 75% of my expenses, and federal loans covered the rest of the tab. I walked out with about $22K in debt from subsidized and subsidized loans. I only have about $5k saved up right now. The program is about 3 years long with a total cost between $70-75k. But that doesn't include my living expenses. So at the risk of sounding like a total idiot, how do I pay living expenses? Can I take out extra student loans or do I have to get some kind of private loan?
3.) What should I be doing before classes start? Is there anything I should brush up on or things I should get myself involved with? Honestly, the last two years have been nothing but trying to get into a program, so now that that isn't my sole focus I am not sure how to manage. I've gotten really good at obsessing over programs and stats, but I don't know what to do with my spare time now that I don;t have to worry about that. I work 60 hours a week, so the spare time isn't plentiful. But you get my point. How should I spend my time before school?
Thank you to anyone and everyone that can help me out in any way. I feel completely stupid for being so clueless, but I don't know what I should be doing next. I guess I never thought I would get this far.
Basically, there are three things to which I need advice on:
1.) How to look for an apartment and when to start the hunt? I live in a really rural area, currently still with my mother. I've never had my own apartment or lived in a city before. I don't know the first thing about trying to hunt for an apartment and what websites would be reliable sources of listings. Also, I don't plan to move until August. How soon can I realistically look for places? I'm eager to get started, but I feel like five months is too long.
2.) How in the world do I pay for grad school? Undergrad was so simple. I had a lot of scholarships that covered about 75% of my expenses, and federal loans covered the rest of the tab. I walked out with about $22K in debt from subsidized and subsidized loans. I only have about $5k saved up right now. The program is about 3 years long with a total cost between $70-75k. But that doesn't include my living expenses. So at the risk of sounding like a total idiot, how do I pay living expenses? Can I take out extra student loans or do I have to get some kind of private loan?
3.) What should I be doing before classes start? Is there anything I should brush up on or things I should get myself involved with? Honestly, the last two years have been nothing but trying to get into a program, so now that that isn't my sole focus I am not sure how to manage. I've gotten really good at obsessing over programs and stats, but I don't know what to do with my spare time now that I don;t have to worry about that. I work 60 hours a week, so the spare time isn't plentiful. But you get my point. How should I spend my time before school?
Thank you to anyone and everyone that can help me out in any way. I feel completely stupid for being so clueless, but I don't know what I should be doing next. I guess I never thought I would get this far.