0 --> Absent, though I've seen many attendings simply put trace (which drives me bonkers)
1 --> Subtle or requiring distraction maneuver
2 --> Normal
3 --> Exaggerated or spread
4 --> Clonus
I'll also use + to indicate slight asymmetry between the contralateral reflex or if it's a brisk normal.
IMO, reflexes are subjective. It's not uncommon to see attendings simply put 2+ if present at all. I've been told that slight cross-adduction is normal, so although you may rate is as 3, it could technically be normal. Brachioradialis is the hardest reflex to get sufficient at, and frequently the one I see the most disparity between different raters. Most people do not check the triceps reflexes. Achilles is absent in older folks and can be a challenge to obtain in a hospital bed.
The real utility of reflexes is to know whether there are any asymmetries between sides (left vs right) or upper vs lower limbs to help with localization. That is why it's important to compare the same reflexes back-to-back (ie, left then right or vice-versa) to get a sense of any asymmetry. It's obviously a little more complicated than that. Just know that I've never seen a medical student get a brachioradialis reflex in someone without a spinal cord lesion. And do not forget to actually use your hammer -- every medical student is so hesitant to put some oomph in the hit, but you have to elicit the reflex.