In this post, we will show you how to appear in the best possible light in this situation, while also explaining how to approach this question honestly, but without going overboard. After all, if you have done something stupid, something deserving of a conviction or suspension, you have a higher bar to prove to an admissions committee that you are worthy of their acceptance.
- Don’t try to hide a conviction
Admissions committees (and the firms they hire) conduct background checks on applicants. An unexplained discrepancy gives them an easy reason to reject your application or withdraw an offer of admission. So, when asked, own up to your behavior. Don’t make excuses.
The biggest struggle you may face is overloading your writing with justifications of your behavior. Even very subtle self-serving statements (“I was still just a junior in college…” “I felt strong peer pressure to…”) can be read by an admissions committee as failure to take responsibility for your actions. Leave out the excuses and directly address what you did.
- Don’t go overboard addressing the infraction
While you need to take responsibility for what you did, you also want to avoid turning your entire application into an overblown mea culpa. Usually a well-written response to an application’s “failure” essay question is enough; don’t discuss your mistakes in every element of the application – that’s too much!
- Show that you learned your lesson and that your past behavior won’t happen again
This step tends to be less of a struggle, because usually you can express remorse, detail the actions you took to atone for your behavior, and show how you matured from your experiences. For example, consider illustrating how you became heavily involved with your community, counseled others who tended toward that same behavior, and otherwise turned your failure into a success benefiting others.
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Related Resources:
- From Example to Exemplary, a free guide to writing outstanding application essays
- Your Past Doesn’t Define You, a podcast episode
- Writing About Overcoming Obstacles in Your Application Essays
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