That's fine. That's your approach. But I would hazard a guess and say that you have also probably refrained in responding to certain folks on certain threads in the past. Maybe I'm wrong. Either way, simply wanting to set a limitation or boundary in and of itself does not rise to the level of labeling someone as being contradictory or hypocritical. There would need to be other layers involved to firmly draw that inference about someone you barely know.
Sometimes, conversations don't have to be indefinite. They can have an ending, or, simply go onto another path as has happened in other threads, and frankly, what is happening now.
I will say it again - my decision on DEI stuff is not just based on data-driven studies, etc. I have mentioned my views on how psychological research is highly variable with issues pertaining to replication ad generalizability. As such, I am also aware that if you debate this out with someone who devotes most of their professional life to this topic, they will most likely push back with whatever "evidence" they have. For me, sometimes it doesn't have to make sense to others if my decision is based more so on moralistic or philosophical issues rather than being driven completely by science. We as social scientists are not the most well-respected amongst other scientists - there are things in psychology that have been published that I often shake my head at. But, because it was published, people drink the Koolaid and preach about it. It becomes popular on university campuses, and then that gets filtered out in to the community without much effort in attempting to falsify the available literature on that topic.
As I mentioned earlier, I am very much open to listening to others' viewpoints. That does not equate to my integrating them. I might. I might integrate some or all of prevailing viewpoint that differs from mine. I've done it before (when I switched from being hard-core liberal to a moderate conservative). What's interesting is, thus far you and some others have called me out on being open to others' viewpoints, but I have yet to see others reciprocating here. I'm not expecting it, but I have noticed that as every time one of you call me out on this thread, we all end up parroting much of the same stuff. This just goes to speak to my other point, that this discussion will not be leading to any profound systemic changes. It ends up alienating ourselves from each other, which I don't like. I'd prefer to be able to disagree with folks, set appropriate boundaries when it gets to a certain point, and acknowledge we all have care about people (which is why we got into this field), but there is more than one way to skin a cat (or whatever PETA-approved equivalent you'd like to substitute).