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Here is my situation:
1. I am twice as old as most students (age 40).
2. I have spent the last year taking prereqs with many of the same students Ill be attending pharm school with.
3. Many think they are the sh** because they are intelligent, many times treating me like I am dumb through comments like:
I dont study for organic, I wont lie.
I am just not being challenged at all in this class.
Oh, Im not worried about getting into pharmacy school because I have good grades and got a 90 on the PCAT.
I dont know what to tell you about your difficulties in organic class.
4. Ive only been able to join study groups when I overhear about them and invite myself. Otherwise, I am never invited to study, party, or participate in school activities with these people. I have also tried asking individuals to study - never successful.
5. I am ignored by 95% of these students. I have been in all the same classes with many people and yet they will not even say hi as they pass me.
About me: outgoing, friendly, sense of humor, still like to party (a FEW times a year,) still listen to rock music, wear stylish clothes (but not too young). In other words, Im a generally happy person who doesnt come off as a stuffy, prudish, frumpy mom, and have never had this problem in other universities. It is not my intention to be best friends or hook up with these people: I would just like to share the experience with others who understand.
What can I do differently to enjoy the next 4 years and not feel like a freak among this group? Imagine how miserable it would feel for you to go to school everyday and not have one person speak to you, even when you speak to them (I usually get one word answers).
1. I am twice as old as most students (age 40).
2. I have spent the last year taking prereqs with many of the same students Ill be attending pharm school with.
3. Many think they are the sh** because they are intelligent, many times treating me like I am dumb through comments like:
I dont study for organic, I wont lie.
I am just not being challenged at all in this class.
Oh, Im not worried about getting into pharmacy school because I have good grades and got a 90 on the PCAT.
I dont know what to tell you about your difficulties in organic class.
4. Ive only been able to join study groups when I overhear about them and invite myself. Otherwise, I am never invited to study, party, or participate in school activities with these people. I have also tried asking individuals to study - never successful.
5. I am ignored by 95% of these students. I have been in all the same classes with many people and yet they will not even say hi as they pass me.
About me: outgoing, friendly, sense of humor, still like to party (a FEW times a year,) still listen to rock music, wear stylish clothes (but not too young). In other words, Im a generally happy person who doesnt come off as a stuffy, prudish, frumpy mom, and have never had this problem in other universities. It is not my intention to be best friends or hook up with these people: I would just like to share the experience with others who understand.
What can I do differently to enjoy the next 4 years and not feel like a freak among this group? Imagine how miserable it would feel for you to go to school everyday and not have one person speak to you, even when you speak to them (I usually get one word answers).