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Moot? I don't understand. There is no silver bullet (or budget) for anyone to zoom through life. There are so many variables from one person to another, let alone from one couple to another. You may have control over your bank account, but you have no control over your spouse developing depression if she has miscarriage, or your kids are born with high cost conditions, or even you hating dentistry in the real world when you practice.Hence why you budget. You need to know what you can afford and what you cannot. That couple got to do plenty of things in their youth. They didn't live like automatons. So your point is moot. If you meant Did they have to sacrafice not going into debt to pay for a 250k yacht? Well yes they did. did they sacrafice not going on vacations? No they did plenty of that because they budgeted for it.
Keyword: BUDGET
If you can't afford 4 kids you can't afford it.
As the saying goes from the duo Outkast, "you can plan for a perfect picnic, but you can't predict the weather".
Did I mention divorce? Even the married couple with kids who are most in love today could have a great start to their life, which is great, doesn't make them financially immune to the ups and downs of life later on. The wind may not even blow the same direction for you when you get there either.
Advise... Worry about those things later, get your dental diploma first.