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Hello everyone,
Please take the time to read this fairly long post so you can understand my situation and offer any encouraging tidbits or advice about how to make medical school a possibility for my future.
I found this forum at a difficult time and it has proven to be quite encouraging for me. I had originally planned to apply to medical school last May, but was hit with one of life's fast balls when my daughter was born with Trisomy 13. For those unfamiliar, Trisomy 13 is a life-limiting condition with a number of neurological and developmental disabilities. To the great dismay of my family, little Elisabeth may or may not make it to her first birthday. The medical literature on the conditions finds that roughly only 12% of people born with Trisomy 13 make it to their first birthday. She was born with a large chunk of the skin and bond missing on the crown of her head, which has since been repaired through surgery. We spent 7 weeks in the hospital with her after she was born, and have since returned multiple times due to respiratory issues - I have performed CPR on her two times already and she is only 6 months old. Recently, she started having infantile spasms that result in apneic episodes - her body simply forgets how to breath. As her father, I have gained experience in managing a terminal ill child who is fed through a g-tube. I have been responsible for her daily care including dressing and changing the bandage on her head, removing, installing, and maintaining her g-tube and multiple other things. It's as if we run a small clinic for one patient out of our home. I also have a healthy, albeit rambunctious, 2 yr-old son.
I decided to pursue a medical career about 2 years ago when I took human physiology. I plan to specialize in psychiatry and had originally planned to pursue a PhD in neuropsychology. However, after completing an internship at a neuropsychology concussion clinic, I discovered that I would be limited in what I would learn in school and what I could do as compared with a medical doctor. I feel strongly that the additional years involved in medical training would better prepare me to assist my future clients. I could explain that further, but the post is long enough already. Suffice it to say that I am driven and feel strongly about pursuing medicine; a thirst further reinforced by all I have observed with my daughter. I have already taken on a doctor/nurse dad role, lol.
Here is my question, am I being realistic in pursuing medicine when I have so much going on at home? I did have multiple obstacles throughout my undergraduate education and still maintained A's, well mostly. For those of you with children, how do you manage your competing roles as parent, spouse, and student? Also, my daughters geneticist strongly recommended I mention the birth of my daughter and my care of her at home.
FYI, here are my stats:
1) cGPA - 3.85
sGPA - 3.67
Magna Cum Laude
2) MCAT - we will see
3) Extracurriculars
- Volunteer 60 hours at local hospital - volunteered at front desk and about to volunteer in the ER
- Volunteered at a local psychiatric hospital ~ 20 hrs
- Worked as an undergraduate instructor while still an undergraduate student - unique program at my school
- Been a TA numerous times
- Worked with adults with disabilities, some having diabetes, for over 5 years. I supervise them in their home and the community, and help them follow behavior and medical plans
- Intern at a local concussion clinic ~ 40 hours
- Tutored youth with Autism ~ 30 hours
- Volunteered with a research-based family intervention program ~ 40 hours
4) Research - numerous presentations at professional and graduate psychology conferences in 5 different states. I also was second author on some research published at the local concussion clinic.
5) Leadership Experience
- Plenty
Please take the time to read this fairly long post so you can understand my situation and offer any encouraging tidbits or advice about how to make medical school a possibility for my future.
I found this forum at a difficult time and it has proven to be quite encouraging for me. I had originally planned to apply to medical school last May, but was hit with one of life's fast balls when my daughter was born with Trisomy 13. For those unfamiliar, Trisomy 13 is a life-limiting condition with a number of neurological and developmental disabilities. To the great dismay of my family, little Elisabeth may or may not make it to her first birthday. The medical literature on the conditions finds that roughly only 12% of people born with Trisomy 13 make it to their first birthday. She was born with a large chunk of the skin and bond missing on the crown of her head, which has since been repaired through surgery. We spent 7 weeks in the hospital with her after she was born, and have since returned multiple times due to respiratory issues - I have performed CPR on her two times already and she is only 6 months old. Recently, she started having infantile spasms that result in apneic episodes - her body simply forgets how to breath. As her father, I have gained experience in managing a terminal ill child who is fed through a g-tube. I have been responsible for her daily care including dressing and changing the bandage on her head, removing, installing, and maintaining her g-tube and multiple other things. It's as if we run a small clinic for one patient out of our home. I also have a healthy, albeit rambunctious, 2 yr-old son.
I decided to pursue a medical career about 2 years ago when I took human physiology. I plan to specialize in psychiatry and had originally planned to pursue a PhD in neuropsychology. However, after completing an internship at a neuropsychology concussion clinic, I discovered that I would be limited in what I would learn in school and what I could do as compared with a medical doctor. I feel strongly that the additional years involved in medical training would better prepare me to assist my future clients. I could explain that further, but the post is long enough already. Suffice it to say that I am driven and feel strongly about pursuing medicine; a thirst further reinforced by all I have observed with my daughter. I have already taken on a doctor/nurse dad role, lol.
Here is my question, am I being realistic in pursuing medicine when I have so much going on at home? I did have multiple obstacles throughout my undergraduate education and still maintained A's, well mostly. For those of you with children, how do you manage your competing roles as parent, spouse, and student? Also, my daughters geneticist strongly recommended I mention the birth of my daughter and my care of her at home.
FYI, here are my stats:
1) cGPA - 3.85
sGPA - 3.67
Magna Cum Laude
2) MCAT - we will see
3) Extracurriculars
- Volunteer 60 hours at local hospital - volunteered at front desk and about to volunteer in the ER
- Volunteered at a local psychiatric hospital ~ 20 hrs
- Worked as an undergraduate instructor while still an undergraduate student - unique program at my school
- Been a TA numerous times
- Worked with adults with disabilities, some having diabetes, for over 5 years. I supervise them in their home and the community, and help them follow behavior and medical plans
- Intern at a local concussion clinic ~ 40 hours
- Tutored youth with Autism ~ 30 hours
- Volunteered with a research-based family intervention program ~ 40 hours
4) Research - numerous presentations at professional and graduate psychology conferences in 5 different states. I also was second author on some research published at the local concussion clinic.
5) Leadership Experience
- Plenty