I really think our Rad Dudeski friend BobABooey is getting the short end of the SDN stick. I mean, all I'm hearing here is what he should have done, how he should have reacted, how he should have known this and only written that.
People reminding him that he's matched into a cush and fluffy specialty so he should chill out and spend a year up the creek because, ya know, he's going to make a lot more money per hour than others here. Others here that matched, or didn't match.
I think it's unfair to sit in judgement. Regardless of whether the initial post was panicked, are these replies really called for? Is match day not a TREMENDOUSLY STRESSFUL time in an budding physician's life? Do the med schools not extend ceremonies and envelope opening in front of your peers making it all the more impactful, or not? I give kudos to OP for wanting to go after what he wants in a PGY1 spot, why the heck not? And I don't have any problem with his emergent Post, are the rest of us SDNers supposed to be perfect the other 364 days of the year aside from match day?
It seems these replies don't really get to the crux, aren't supportive at all, and really don't speak to what SDN is really about: guidance, advice, support. I also feel that these replies are all founded on OP matching in Radiology. Much is given to him being, "OK" one day, that he should "chill out" and "relax" and deal with it because, after all, he's going into Rads. As if that precludes him from having any "moments" on SDN, or else, the great crucifixion. Let me ask, would the replies have been so harsh had OP matched into, oh, I dunno, PEDS, FM, IM? Heaven forbid he matched through the San Fran Match into Neuro Surgery, I feel OP would have been banned!!!!!!
Seems like there's more to these replies than meets the eye, with the exception of some good guidance by BRedBeta. Whether OP knew his surroundings or not when he made that initial post, SO WHAT. Do we all want these sorts of judgemental posts back when our posts don't make 10000% rational, calm, orderly sense? If this is the case, we're ALL in trouble.
Congrats OP. Stay focused. Go after what you want.
D712