EM is NOT a lifestyle specialty. I think derm is, and good on them. But our patients die, daily, though no fault of our medical management. We also get everything primary care gets scared about. We also get trashed from every other specialty - maybe we deserve some of that. But...
Ours is a really, really hard job.
How many orthopedists or neurologists have to tell a spouse their loved one has died? How many pediatricians have actually coded a kid - and how many of them live with that. How many GI docs or Rheumatologists deal with rape, of kids, of anyone?
We miss stuff. We are hurried. We don’t do things the way certain specialists or subspecialists do. We don’t always work out Winter’s equation or figure out the A-a gradient. We can’t always show that we are smart too.
Sometimes we cry with patient’s families. Sometimes we hang back as the caring providers we are and support the family as much as we can. But we are always there, always on call, always on duty, always ready for what comes through those doors.
So no. We are not a lifestyle specialty. We specialize in trying to figure out medically and socially how to un-**** horrible situations.
Yes, we have shift work. Yes, it can be predictable and can be scheduled. No. It is not lifestyle.
Thank you all, for all that you do.