I’m an IMG, new mom, graduated from a "clinically strong" university residency program and burnt out a little although I feel I did benefit from my strong clinical training in residency. I had some research on BMT/malignant heme and was planning to go for malignant heme in academics, as I didn’t really have much exposure to solid onc as a resident so I don’t know which I like better. Last few months due to various events I started doubting whether I should go into hemonc fellowship or do Hospitalist or PCP. I read a lot on SDN and I’m getting more confused. I found I don’t specifically enjoy doing research, it may sound bad but I don’t want to get paged at the middle of the night. I like outpt and monotony doesn’t bother me. I still feel it’s hard to talk to pt about prognosis. It may sound like I’m not a hemonc material? I still applied and interviewed but I really don’t know if I should keep moving forward or stop. My current mindset is just I want an easier life style. Prestige, pay don’t matter as much. I know it might be too late to have a cold feet now. But maybe someone had the same struggle and confusion? about hemonc vs Hospitalist vs PCP? hematology vs oncology? Academic vs private? Is fellowship really that bad?