Sorry, but I think you are missing the point here. You are almost dead in the water without a nurse to help you, so you depend on her speed, and that becomes your speed of thinking and doing things. Can you draw up, dilute, titrate, and administer your own drugs? And I am not talking about a code situation. I am talking about what happens before, about what one does rapidly to avoid getting there. You cannot compare yourself with somebody who's used to do things solo, if needed, no offense. You might be great in a team, you might be great at putting in a central line (especially when all is needed is a large bore peripheral IV), your long-term and even short-term medical thinking may be outstanding, but you are not the best at hands-on patient care, because you really don't do enough of it. Your speed is your team's speed, and what kind of speed is that when you guys almost never practice as a team? One can't really supervise things one hasn't done solo, and I see it all the time when around ICU "teams".
You are doctors, while we are doctors and nurses and pharmacists and respiratory techs etc. We do whatever we need to do. Patient is bucking, or overbreathing the vent? Fixed in a minute. (And I am not talking about just pushing a stick of rocuronium, but deciding in ten seconds why the patient is doing it and what's the best way to treat it.) Patient is uncomfortable? Fixed in a blink, again. (Your patients are either oversedated and/or in pain, rarely where they should be, according to your own science, because the show is run by your nurses and protocols, not true individualized patient care. How come a lot of ICU patients remember having pain while in the ICU, and nobody feels ashamed about this level of "care"?) Patient is unstable? Fixed. We don't care about bruising egos; we care about saving patients. Your speed is usually not an anesthesiologist's speed, and same goes for some surgeons at bedside. It's always faster to just do stuff, than give orders to nurses and explain. The whole ICU is set up almost like a regular floor; except for a code situation, one cannot get things done without a nurse and an order (do you guys have your own Pyxis access?), or having the pharmacy bless them (while even the first year anesthesia resident has an entire cart at his fingertips), cannot change vent settings without hurting the poor RT's ego, must keep the nurses happy etc. It's all about egos and bureaucracy. It's the difference between snail mail and email.
So, yeah, I'd rather crash in an OR or PACU with some badass (not just any) anesthesiologists around.