No offense imanifaith, but your goals are clearly motivated by superficiality and ego. In other words, you just selected credentials that would impress a layperson (an elite sounding specialty and two well known medical schools). You have some vague fantasy of curing people left and right while colleagues laud you, patients adore you, and young black women look up to you. A fantasy indeed! The truth of the matter is that there is no way that you could actually have a concrete understanding of what being a neurosurgeon entails at age 15. I'm a fourth year medical student, and I don't know much about the field. That you would pursue a certain field to break down imaginary sociocultural barriers is exceedingly base and naive. I dare you to save this thread as a word doc. I guarantee that you will laugh at yourself when you're 25.
The last time I checked, children were allowed to have dreams and aspirations. It's what drives them to become a successful adult, even if they change their mind as they grow (which is most likely). It can be a fantasy, absolutely yes, but it will drive her in a direction that can only help her rather than hurt her.
I wouldn't mind at all if you were berating a pre-med for this; they should know better. But a 15 year old girl? Pathetic.
Oh, and imaginary sociocultural barriers? Again, ha. Keep on living in a f-ing dreamworld.
To the OP: Your drive and ambitions are admirable, there's no contest there. However, you will get a large amount of naysayers. For example, there's the above person, and people who think women (and women of color) are weak and undeserving. I assure you, you
will come into contact with these kinds of folk. This may discourage you. If it does, perhaps it is for the best -- because neurosurgery is
ABSOLUTELY F-ING GRUELING. It is extremely glamorized which makes people think it's not all that bad, but it is a tough, tough,
tough residency. If you can't survive the naysayers, there's no way in hell you'll survive neurosurgery. In the meantime, though, I suggest to continue following your ambition -- and don't be afraid to change your mind. Nothing is writ in stone. I must say though, wanting to be a neurosurgeon just so you can break down barriers (which already have some considerable openings in them) is NOT the way to go about things. It's a great side effect -- but to do nsurg, you have to have a definite love for the field, or you Simply. Won't. Survive. The love for the field must come before all other aspirations. Delve into some independent neuroscience courses aimed towards high school students and see how you like it. Don't shy away from the dissections you have to do, and note how you can improve your fine motor skills.
It seems like you're being exceedingly idealistic, but you're only 15. I'll cut some slack. Because of your age, this counts as a huge aspiration. Follow it, but be realistic at the same time.