livewires said:
Wouldn't it be nice to just once hear a resident say, "So how am I doing as your mentor and are you happy with what you are learning and comfortable with what you are being asked to do?" Is this so unheard of and taboo in medicine? Are some residents so arrogant that they just could give a damn less about how they are percieved as a mentor and as a fellow "advanced" student. Aren't we all students of medicine forever?
The relationship between resident and student is dynamic and one that needs to be treated with MUTUAL respect. Bad days will always happen, whether inside or outside of the hospital, but it is NEVER okay to be "bastardly" with students and patients for that matter.
By the way, yesterday, while rounding, I was last out of the room and heard a pt. mumble in disgust about what a prick my resident was because he kept interrupting this guy and wouldn't let him complete a sentence. What a shame.
livewires that chip on your shoulder seems to be incredibly heavy. Why is it that you assume the worst of residents because you have ONE sucky resident? Wouldn't it be dreamy if every resident had the time to sit down with each medical student they have and ask them how things were going, how they were doing as a teacher etc? Yes, most definately. However, just because a resident DOESN"T do this, doesn't mean they are arrogant or uncaring.
There are a couple of reasons why this will always be an issue, and why they can't all sit down and mentor you.
1-the vast majority of residents DON"T go into academics. They have never taught, don't want to teach, and have no plans to teach. Thus, they don't know how and don't want to. Just like having to memorize the Krebs cycle is something we have to do in med school, dealing with med students is something that residents have to do. some enjoy it more than others.
2-Sit back and take a look at the residents around you. Even with 80 hour work weeks, residents are killed. They carry HUGE patient loads. They have to fight with off service consults, with radiology, with surgeons, with the ED. They are learning how to get crap done from nurses, etc. They are also trying to make sure that they not only DONT" kill someone but that they give them good care. They are trying to figure out if they need a fellowship. Research etc. They are trying to find some time to have a life outside of work and also figure out when they are going to take step 3, their boards, etc. And they have to deal with attendings as well. the list goes on and on.
There is a huge safety in being a medical student. You can't really harm anyone and you are really there to learn, either by direct teaching, observation or self learning.
If you get a resident that loves to teach, then let them know it. And cut those that don't some slack.
Now, having said that, there is absolutely NO reason, wether a resident teaches or not, a resident should NEVER treat a med student badly, even if the med students act poorly (not that you are.. just in general)