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Alright, I would love to know f ANYONE is in a smiliar situation to myself?
I see people that were already married when they started medical school, or already married AND had kids, but I have as yet to meet someone who started med school around 29-30, which means you're not done with residency till your late 30's, and were single when they started the journey.
A big concern for me, is that yes, I would like a family, a husband, all that good stuff, but it scares me to think, will I be able to be a good mom and handle being pregnant while Im trying to work 80 hours a week as a resident?
Is this even possible? I guess people have done it before, but its so much easier when you already have a spouse to give you support.
I am by no means unattractive. I'm actually quite attractive, a good all around catch, intelligent and funny and easy to be with. A guy once told me that fact that I was both "hot and really smart" was intimidating for men. WTF?
Forgive my apparently gramatically horrific writing but I've been awake for almost two days straight and am going a little delirious.
Am 25 years old, 26 in a month , set to take the MCATS in the spring once i finish pre-reqs in december. My undergad GPA (due to a crappy freshman year GPA) was barely a 3.1
My post bacc science courses, thus car, average out to about a 3.5. Hopefully will not go less than that as I only have one more class to do (organic chem part 2).
I've managed to get A, A, A-, B+, B and a B- in my science courses post bacc thus far, and this is while working full time at a hospital all day from 6 in the morning, then going to school four hours straight, and coming home too exhausted to study. I'd say those are pretty good grades in bio, organic chem, physics and chemistry with an average of studying maybe one day prior to each exam I've ever had.
I consider myself a naturally intelligent person, but this whoe family lifestyle thing scares me.
Am I sacrificing everything for naught?
Reading back on this post, it doesn't even make sense but I'll post it anyway. Maybe I'll get some responses that make more sense than what I've written.
Christ i need to sleep....i shoudl go do that now before i fall asleep in my office like i did today. One of my patients came for a session with me, knocked on my door, i jerked my head up off the desk, said "come in!" and the patient walks in as i sit there smiling with a post-it stuck to my forehead.
Yaaaaaay.
I see people that were already married when they started medical school, or already married AND had kids, but I have as yet to meet someone who started med school around 29-30, which means you're not done with residency till your late 30's, and were single when they started the journey.
A big concern for me, is that yes, I would like a family, a husband, all that good stuff, but it scares me to think, will I be able to be a good mom and handle being pregnant while Im trying to work 80 hours a week as a resident?
Is this even possible? I guess people have done it before, but its so much easier when you already have a spouse to give you support.
I am by no means unattractive. I'm actually quite attractive, a good all around catch, intelligent and funny and easy to be with. A guy once told me that fact that I was both "hot and really smart" was intimidating for men. WTF?
Forgive my apparently gramatically horrific writing but I've been awake for almost two days straight and am going a little delirious.
Am 25 years old, 26 in a month , set to take the MCATS in the spring once i finish pre-reqs in december. My undergad GPA (due to a crappy freshman year GPA) was barely a 3.1
My post bacc science courses, thus car, average out to about a 3.5. Hopefully will not go less than that as I only have one more class to do (organic chem part 2).
I've managed to get A, A, A-, B+, B and a B- in my science courses post bacc thus far, and this is while working full time at a hospital all day from 6 in the morning, then going to school four hours straight, and coming home too exhausted to study. I'd say those are pretty good grades in bio, organic chem, physics and chemistry with an average of studying maybe one day prior to each exam I've ever had.
I consider myself a naturally intelligent person, but this whoe family lifestyle thing scares me.
Am I sacrificing everything for naught?
Reading back on this post, it doesn't even make sense but I'll post it anyway. Maybe I'll get some responses that make more sense than what I've written.
Christ i need to sleep....i shoudl go do that now before i fall asleep in my office like i did today. One of my patients came for a session with me, knocked on my door, i jerked my head up off the desk, said "come in!" and the patient walks in as i sit there smiling with a post-it stuck to my forehead.
Yaaaaaay.