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1.6% baby! (And I feel really bad for you guys at those painfully high interest rates.)
And I come home to dogs who are thrilled to see me, cats who don't give a damn, my own space, and peace and quiet. It's certainly not cold unless I forget to turn the AC up, and empty is a state of mind.
My residency buddies were my best friends, and understand me like no other. While I have some very close friends from my pre-residency days, I sort of dropped off the map during it. Of course, once I finished, those friendships were rekindled as if I'd never disappeared once I was done. But being halfway across the country, well... (this was also pre-Facebook, which changes a lot.)
You see, at 1.6 and 2.5, I understand why it would be possible to ease the debt off into the sunset and it would be no problem. Investing would be much better. But at our rates, we need to get these shackles off fast. It's almost like an investment in itself.
Before the internet, moving just a city or two away meant all friendship ties were lost except in rare occasions. Now, my younger cousins, who move quite often across the state, have Facebook, Skype, MSN/AIM, etc. to keep in touch. It's not exactly the same, but it is way better than the days of letter writing and Juno email that took 24+ hours to send.
My old friends are far off and away from my school, but I still manage to get in a few rounds of computer games a week just to catch up with them and relax. I don't really have many close friends in med school.
In the future, when we all have money and are free to move about the country, I do hope we're in close vicinity of each other, but the internet can keep us all connected until that day comes. Along with this, many of the fellas also have little intention to get married or have kids in the near future because of the costs.
Of course, like ccfccp says, anything can happen, but at the same time, things have changed dramatically for this generation, not just in communication, but in what is expected of us socially. My older cousins (28+) are still bugged by their respective parents to get married, but they're still living their lives with their jobs and relationships. I don't see this commonality of having these landmarks reached by 30 anymore and that's a good thing to me; the more options, the better.
Sorry for potentially derailing this thread with this horrendous rant. I thank anyone for reading it.