Not even sure why I'm writing this as there's nothing I could "do", but you know what they say about talking out your problems.
I'm having extreme anxiety and sadness about my upcoming move for residency. Not nightmares, but I've been having bad dreams about the move all week. I'm a Southern California native. Went to a southern california UC for undergrad and went to that same UC for medical school. Had the great fortune of commuting from home for all 8 years. I'm moving out of state this weekend for residency (great program, but 3rd choice for obvious reasons).
This will be my first time away from my family. This isn't even about "independence" per se as I'm okay with making my own meals and doing my shopping, but the thought of maybe only seeing my family on some holidays instead of a day-to-day basis scares me. The thought of not seeing them for 4+ months at a time makes me sad. I'm even tearing up right now thinking about it.
Anything I should try to do to lighten my definite extreme homesickness? I'm going to try and hang out with the other interns as much as possible, but I know my homesickness will kick in every time I go back home to my empty apartment.
Planning on skyping with family as much as I can, but that's obviously not the same as seeing them in person.
I'm having extreme anxiety and sadness about my upcoming move for residency. Not nightmares, but I've been having bad dreams about the move all week. I'm a Southern California native. Went to a southern california UC for undergrad and went to that same UC for medical school. Had the great fortune of commuting from home for all 8 years. I'm moving out of state this weekend for residency (great program, but 3rd choice for obvious reasons).
This will be my first time away from my family. This isn't even about "independence" per se as I'm okay with making my own meals and doing my shopping, but the thought of maybe only seeing my family on some holidays instead of a day-to-day basis scares me. The thought of not seeing them for 4+ months at a time makes me sad. I'm even tearing up right now thinking about it.
Anything I should try to do to lighten my definite extreme homesickness? I'm going to try and hang out with the other interns as much as possible, but I know my homesickness will kick in every time I go back home to my empty apartment.
Planning on skyping with family as much as I can, but that's obviously not the same as seeing them in person.