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What makes you think this? It seems like you're mind reading and predicting the future. As a psychiatrist, I love collaborating with therapists and getting more information in figuring out how to best take care of a patient.I’m perplexed by this physician’s about face and would like to understand the reasons. I don’t know if it’s my place to call, introduce myself, and ask for diagnostic clarity. I really feel I should but I don’t think it will be well-received. Any thoughts on action I should or shouldn’t take. I’d really love to know why he changed his mind after 15 years but I know I can’t do that.
Actually, it’s based on negative comments I’ve read here about therapists for the most part.What makes you think this? It seems like you're mind reading and predicting the future. As a psychiatrist, I love collaborating with therapists and getting more information in figuring out how to best take care of a patient.
You're enacting a transference reaction from the patient to her psychiatrist. Don't let that cause you to avoid reaching out to the psychiatrist.
Comments from our forum isn't necessarily reflective of psychiatry as a whole, let alone this specific psychiatrist you have a question about.Actually, it’s based on negative comments I’ve read here about therapists for the most part.
TrueComments from our forum isn't necessarily reflective of psychiatry as a whole, let alone this specific psychiatrist you have a question about.
Lots of assumptions there. This forum doesn’t disappoint.Coming back to this forum and asking different questions about your same therapy client isn't the solution. Because the root cause is a lack of adequate therapy training. Why aren't you talking to your supervisor?
Have you considered paying for your own therapy? It would be helpful to see how real therapy works, as well as explore why you react to your client and their psychiatrist in the manner you do. Otherwise, you really aren't helping your client, and perpetuating maladaptive behaviors in them at the very least.
I've got one psychologist I refer to often.Actually, it’s based on negative comments I’ve read here about therapists for the most part.
Lots of assumptions there. This forum doesn’t disappoint.
I have put a call in to her psychiatrist. I should have done it sooner. My questions are not about therapy but how to interface with psychiatrists who are a difficult bunch sometimes. I collaborate with a psychologist who suggested letting the psychiatrist contact me. I disagree with her. I feel the need to collaborate with this individual.Sorry, I have to call you out. You keep posting about a female, middle-aged client with bipolar, OCD and PTSD who stops her meds due to weight gain and is mad at her psychiatrist. So, you have more than one client with this exact same presentation?
And, if a "therapist" keeps asking questions that are very basic, then there is the presumption of incompetence.
At best a stereotype, but likely not even that, you may have had bad experiences but those aren't generalizable.My questions are not about therapy but how to interface with psychiatrists who are a difficult bunch sometimes.
Agree with Sushi, how you're perceived by peers (including psychiatrists) is going to be heavily about how you interact with them. I've had patients describe counselors who I believe to be objectively good therapists from seeing them work in person as awful and describe legitimately terrible therapists as great. I've talked to therapists who I think probably have mediocre psychotherapy skills who I would have no problems referring patients to because the counselors can interact appropriately and work well with others to move the patient forward in their care. There's plenty of crappy therapists out there, just like there's plenty of crappy psychiatrists and crappy insert-any-profession-here that are working. Don't generalize and/or internalize statements made here, it's just a forum, not a place to measure skills or aptitude.Actually, it’s based on negative comments I’ve read here about therapists for the most part.
Yes, of courseIt seems strange to me that her psychiatrist would suddenly announce that he doesn’t know if the diagnoses he gave her are correct after treating her medically for 15 years. Does this really happen?
I have put a call in to her psychiatrist. I should have done it sooner. My questions are not about therapy but how to interface with psychiatrists who are a difficult bunch sometimes. I collaborate with a psychologist who suggested letting the psychiatrist contact me. I disagree with her. I feel the need to collaborate with this individual.
Actually, it’s based on negative comments I’ve read here about therapists for the most part.
Agreed. I should not have called him difficult. I’m finding the situation difficult and that’s my problem.Sure, if you'd like to clarify this whole situation with the psychiatrist (which seems like I good idea) you should probably reach out to them. The whole story seems bizzare (and not true....) that some psychiatrist would tell a patient that he/she "did not know if she had any of the diagnoses he had given her previously. The reason he gave my client was lack of collateral reports from family and other providers including me". You're taking a lot of stuff the patient says at face value here.
Your psychologist collaborator idea is terrible if you're the one wanting to get more info. Don't mean this to seem stand-offish but the reality is that most psychiatrists have hundreds of patients on their caseload and most therapists have caseloads in the mid double digits. If most of us even spent 5-10 minutes once a year trying to contact half our patients therapists it'd be like 20+ hours of uncompensated work a year.
The fact that you're already calling this person a "difficult" psych attending when you've yet to actually talk to them about this whole situation is somewhat telling as well.
I can’t imagine anyone doing those things.On the flip side, there are many reasons you'll hear us talk about therapists negatively. Some things NOT to do to avoid being viewed this way:
1. Don't demand to talk to us about why we refuse to prescribe a stimulant to a 40 yo patient with new on-set ADHD symptoms that you've been seeing for 3 months.
1b. Don't demand to talk to us about why your patient NEEDS their benzos because their anxiety is so crippling without them and they just can't survive without them.
1c. Don't call us prior to an initial eval to tell us what med the patient needs to be started on before we even see them.
1d. Don't call us to tell us we are terrible doctors because our diagnosis is clearly wrong and proceed to tell us what meds the patient should be on.
2. Don't repeatedly call us every time our chronically suicidal patients have a brief thought of "maybe I should just kill myself" despite no other worsening of symptoms.
3. Don't expect us to be available for a full hour long conversation about formulation and plans for a patient with mild to moderate dysfunction when we just changed meds earlier that week.
4. Don't contact us just to unload your own countertransference or talk about your personal problems/interactions with the patient when we've never interacted before.
I'm sure there's other things to avoid, but these are things I have either experienced myself or have seen directly happen to colleagues which will fast track a therapist onto our s*** list. In contrast, if there is a legitimate concern about a patient's treatment plan(med side effects you notice, abuse or non-compliance, etc), questions that you have, or conflicting info that you need clarified then reaching out is completely appropriate and I'd personally appreciate it even if I can't get back to them.
I think I wanted reassurance that this was an okay reason for me to reach out to the psychiatrist. I did reach out and got more information.Yes of course
If true: This still seems quite appropriate to me. Seeing someone for a long time....progress is limited or other barriers....maybe additional previously unknown information is revealed??? First thing you need to do is start questioning the formulation of the patient. I don't really understand what the problem is here? Patients who are chronically psychiatrically involved and possibly personality disordered get "mad" at people. It happens. It's part of the pathology.
What are you wanting to ultimately happen here?
Reaching out for coordination of care is always fine. I just wouldn't always expect it to lead to agreement about certain things... even diagnosis.I think I wanted reassurance that this was an okay reason for me to reach out to the psychiatrist. I did reach out and got more information.
I collaborate with a psychologist who suggested letting the psychiatrist contact me. I disagree with her. I feel the need to collaborate with this individual.
I am using ERP/CBT. Ultimately, the goal is for her to resist engaging in compulsions and be okay with uncertainty. Ideally, through our work using exposure ladders she is learning how to do some of these on her own. She appears to be. The client has been taking anafranil all this time but has refused therapy until recently.Reaching out for coordination of care is always fine. I just wouldn't always expect it to lead to agreement about certain things... even diagnosis.
You should be providing evidence based best practice care/therapy for the patient. But, if your formulation and subsequent treatment plan is significantly different from their 15 year-long attending psychiatrist, that is a problem, obviously. What are the measurable treatment plan goals? Does this recent issue with the psychiatrist disturb/impede them? If so, why? What is that about? Acting out? Sabotage? Splitting?
When was the last time this patient had a truly thorough psychiatric diagnostic evaluation with fresh treatment recs? 15 years in treatment for disorders that are typically highly treatable into remission (especially OCD)? I don't know. Fresh set of eyes might do some good here, no?
I think you’ve misunderstood and you’re reaching. I have provided him with the clients notes which gives him more information. He gave me more information on the reason for the diagnostic uncertainty which gives me some things to watch out for. He seemed appreciative and asked me to contact him again. I don’t think he would have done that if I wasted his time. Why was I relieved? I personally feel socially anxious in these situations and feel nervous. I was relieved it went well. That wasn’t his job and even if it hadn’t gone well I would have been fine.You had a conversation with the "difficult" psychiatrist who turned out to be not so mean, and he confirmed diagnoses aren't always set in stone, and you felt better. The end. I'm glad you felt better, but that's not the point of patient care or the psychiatrist's job. Objectively, your phone call achieved nothing useful in terms of clinical patient care. So, a waste of time. This is part of why psychiatrists dislike being called by "therapists".
Again, you really need to get better training and your own therapy because everything you've said here points to you not being qualified. You need to get competent rather than waste everyone's time at best, or harming the patient at worse.
Maybe listen to your psychologist supervisor. It's ironic a supervisee who doesn't listen to their supervisor believes that psychiatrists are difficult and need to be managed.
If all this doesn't affect your treatment plan, then you should not really concern yourself with her psychiatrists statements unless you think he/she is undermining the treatment/treatment plan...or is actually correct. Leave it alone.I am using ERP/CBT. Ultimately, the goal is for her to resist engaging in compulsions and be okay with uncertainty. Ideally, through our work using exposure ladders she is learning how to do some of these on her own. She appears to be. The client has been taking anafranil all this time but has refused therapy until recently.
Some fresh eyes on the case is probably best advice here.I deleted the topic. I am satisfied with the outcome today and some commenters have provided helpful comments. Many haven’t, but it’s sdn so I expect it. I’ll leave it at that. I
I will definitely talk to someone else. I need a fresh perspective. I didn’t mention it, but the way she tells it they have had a casual relationship. I don’t know if it’s just wishful thinking on her part but she has reported them having rather casual talks about their kids and spouses. This has made her feel the relationship has been more important than it is. We have had to focus on the fact they don’t have a relationship (platonic) and that what matters is her medical care. I feel annoyed by providers who don’t have good boundaries. Some of the things she says he has said have given me pause. I think I started feeling upset for her (transference) and this is good for me to explore. At the end of the day, I’m not in the room with them and really don’t know who said what.Some fresh eyes on the case is probably best advice here.
I’m sorry but casual chit chat with a long term patient is highly unlikely to be an indication of inappropriate boundaries. You have been told multiple times to seek supervision. It should be beyond clear at this point that your own thoughts and feelings about this case are where the problem lies. This is therapy 101 stuff.I will definitely talk to someone else. I need a fresh perspective. I didn’t mention it, but the way she tells it they have had a casual relationship. I don’t know if it’s just wishful thinking on her part but she has reported them having rather casual talks about their kids and spouses. This has made her feel the relationship has been more important than it is. We have had to focus on the fact they don’t have a relationship (platonic) and that what matters is her medical care. I feel annoyed by providers who don’t have good boundaries. Some of the things she says he has said have given me pause. I think I started feeling upset for her (transference) and this is good for me to explore. At the end of the day, I’m not in the room with them and really don’t know who said what.
No. I’m not talking about casual chit chat. What I’ve heard is not appropriate. It goes beyond casual chit chat. No need to weigh my every word on a scale. It’s a message forum and you don’t know me.I’m sorry but casual chit chat with a long term patient is highly unlikely to be an indication of inappropriate boundaries. You have been told multiple times to seek supervision. It should be beyond clear at this point that your own thoughts and feelings about this case are where the problem lies. This is therapy 101 stuff.
I think this is presumptuous on the psychiatrist's part. I know many masters level therapists who are excellent, including my own analyst. I think you did an excellent job navigating that initial behavior from the psychiatrist that could have riled you up. This patient's care is better because of your actions including posting on this forum for reassurance, despite the personal and professional attacks.Well, that was fast. I heard from him while eating lunch. I introduced myself and expressed a desire to collaborate on the patient’s care. He noticed my accent and stated “you’re not from here.” I told him where I was from and he asked me where I went to school. When he found out I have a masters he stated that he preferred his patients see PhD psychologists. I told him I understood he wanted the best possible care for his patients and asked if I could still be helpful while acknowledging there are concerns about the patient’s diagnoses. He didn’t say anything so I just kept going … told him I couldn’t speak to the bipolar as I have not witness hypomania or mania, that the patient has intrusive thoughts and compulsions, and that I don’t believe she has PTSD although she has a trauma history. He was quiet again and then told me the patient displayed some dramatic behavior this year and he began to revisit her diagnoses from the past wondering if it was dramatic behavior. He confirmed that he is doubting especially in the face of no phone calls from family or other professionals. I asked how I could be the most helpful. He suggested we touch base in 3 months or sooner if anything happens. I did tell him the patient had tearfully confessed to two episodes of dramatic behavior but that I had not experienced any dramatics.