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Let's get the disclaimer out of the way first: Yes, there are always exceptions. Yes, you and/or someone you know is an exception to the rule. Got it. Well done.
Back to the question, let's please not pretend this isn't a reality. Let's not pretend this phenomenon doesn't apply to a very large % of women. If a male physician was attracted to and had a connection with a school teacher, a therapist, someone who works in retail or in travel, someone who works in the restaurant business, etc, etc... very few (if any) would discount the person because of her lack of income. It would be a non-issue. The reverse, however, is few and far between by comparison.
Not only do they look down on these men, but they feel resentful they have to pay for most of the costs of their lifestyle (housing, vacations, etc), yet these same women wouldn't think twice if they had, for example, a sister who was a $38K/year school teacher who was married to a physician who was funding all these things.
So where does this resentment come from? Traditional genders roles? Darwin/DNA? Why the double standards?
Back to the question, let's please not pretend this isn't a reality. Let's not pretend this phenomenon doesn't apply to a very large % of women. If a male physician was attracted to and had a connection with a school teacher, a therapist, someone who works in retail or in travel, someone who works in the restaurant business, etc, etc... very few (if any) would discount the person because of her lack of income. It would be a non-issue. The reverse, however, is few and far between by comparison.
Not only do they look down on these men, but they feel resentful they have to pay for most of the costs of their lifestyle (housing, vacations, etc), yet these same women wouldn't think twice if they had, for example, a sister who was a $38K/year school teacher who was married to a physician who was funding all these things.
So where does this resentment come from? Traditional genders roles? Darwin/DNA? Why the double standards?