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As a 23 y/o MS-1 to-be (class of 2011), I have just reached the point in my life when my friends tell me their pregnant and I can say congratulations instead of oh $hit. Still, I do not plan to start a family for several years, probably after my residency. My SO is totally on board with being Mr. Mom, so I feel really lucky in that respect. Even with that, I definitely worry about waiting so long to start and not being able to spend enough time with my kids. My mother took several years off of teaching to stay at home with me and my two siblings (not really something you can do as a doctor). I hope that I can make up for in quality what I don't give them in quantity of time.
As far as waiting until my mid-thirties, I guess I will just cross my fingers and hope for the best. My 37 y/o cousin recently had triplets with no fertility drugs, and most of the women in my family have easily (often unintentionally!) had children into their mid-30s to 40s. Hope I got their extra-long-egg-releasing genes! If not, my SO would like to adopt, which takes off a lot of biological clock pressure.
I think that pretty much any med student or doctor with a uterus is facing some variation of this conflict. Good luck to all of you working it out. I will definitely be checking back for advice and opinions over the next few years.
As far as waiting until my mid-thirties, I guess I will just cross my fingers and hope for the best. My 37 y/o cousin recently had triplets with no fertility drugs, and most of the women in my family have easily (often unintentionally!) had children into their mid-30s to 40s. Hope I got their extra-long-egg-releasing genes! If not, my SO would like to adopt, which takes off a lot of biological clock pressure.
I think that pretty much any med student or doctor with a uterus is facing some variation of this conflict. Good luck to all of you working it out. I will definitely be checking back for advice and opinions over the next few years.