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Hi all,
I'm trying to be discrete with all of this.
My situation is that I completed 90 credits in a DPT program with a total of 99 credits and failed out in my second to last trimester.
I've come to terms with the situation which may be a very unique one as I don't think there are many people that fail out after getting this far in to the program (9 credits away from graduating).
I'm not in the worst position because prior to DPT school I have earned and been working as a licenced PTA. So I have that to fall back on.
I love being a PTA and personally do not want to go back to DPT school to start over, especially since there's a chance this could happen again. I'm not willing to risk that.
Thankfully I did not go through student loans to pay for school but my father helped me pay for it by loaning me money for it. I spent about $86,000 total on grad school alone which is what he (my father paid for). Thankfully as a PTA I was able to work and pay for my undergrad schooling and even the first year of my grad school with money I made as a PTA. My father paid for the remaining 2 years.
I don't have an issue with continuing to be a PTA especially since I'm making really good money doing it. I make enough to be able to pay my father back in a couple of years.
But my father is very hurt by my failing out of DPT school and he wants me to go back or at least find a use for the 90 credits I earned. I use it on my PTA resume but he doesn't think it helps my PTA. Honestly I think he really just wants me to be a doctor. It's more about pride than anything and I don't like that. So many people have lost so much on the name of pride. I am not about to take on piles of debt just to prove that I can do something.
My father wants to know if anyone else has been in my situation where they were a few credits from graduating but then failed? And what can be done about it? He is talking about getting lawyers to see if he can get the money back for the credits from the school.
I already know own that my credits can't be transfered to another school from asking in an earlier post. I've chalked this experience up to an investment loss in life (even though I feel the knowledge enhanced me as a PTA, he doesn't). He is sort of confused and distraught because he also makes the argument that PTs and PTAs aren't much different in the work accept for the evaluation and assessment part which I kind of agree. The worst part is that he tells me that thinking about it hurts him, keeps him up at night and brings him to tears. It's ridiculous to me what pride can do. He really just wants me to have that Doctorate degree. We've spoken about it and I concluded that it's not so much his interest in becoming a PT but more so in earning a Doctorate degree which is not why I went to PT school. I once told a fellow students that I am not becoming a PT to be a doctor, I am becoming a doctor to become a PT. If the PT program was still only a bachelor's degree I would still have gone in to it and I bet it wouldn't mean as much to my father because it's only a bachelor's. He kind of looks down at my being a PTA because it's only an associates degree even though it's pretty much the same work. That's how I know it's more about the degree to him than the profession. Especially since with my experience as a PTA I am making close to if not the same what starting PT would make. But he doesn't care about that, he still wants me to go back to PT school even though he's convinced that the reason I failed was a discrimination issue as he talks about how few people of color are in high places in the medical field and in general.
I'm not sure what to do to comfort him. I don't want to go back to school to risk this happening again. I'm hoping time will heal his wounds and he'll forget about this as I become successful as a PTA but he wants to know what can be done with my 90 credits in the position I am in?
Thank you.
I'm trying to be discrete with all of this.
My situation is that I completed 90 credits in a DPT program with a total of 99 credits and failed out in my second to last trimester.
I've come to terms with the situation which may be a very unique one as I don't think there are many people that fail out after getting this far in to the program (9 credits away from graduating).
I'm not in the worst position because prior to DPT school I have earned and been working as a licenced PTA. So I have that to fall back on.
I love being a PTA and personally do not want to go back to DPT school to start over, especially since there's a chance this could happen again. I'm not willing to risk that.
Thankfully I did not go through student loans to pay for school but my father helped me pay for it by loaning me money for it. I spent about $86,000 total on grad school alone which is what he (my father paid for). Thankfully as a PTA I was able to work and pay for my undergrad schooling and even the first year of my grad school with money I made as a PTA. My father paid for the remaining 2 years.
I don't have an issue with continuing to be a PTA especially since I'm making really good money doing it. I make enough to be able to pay my father back in a couple of years.
But my father is very hurt by my failing out of DPT school and he wants me to go back or at least find a use for the 90 credits I earned. I use it on my PTA resume but he doesn't think it helps my PTA. Honestly I think he really just wants me to be a doctor. It's more about pride than anything and I don't like that. So many people have lost so much on the name of pride. I am not about to take on piles of debt just to prove that I can do something.
My father wants to know if anyone else has been in my situation where they were a few credits from graduating but then failed? And what can be done about it? He is talking about getting lawyers to see if he can get the money back for the credits from the school.
I already know own that my credits can't be transfered to another school from asking in an earlier post. I've chalked this experience up to an investment loss in life (even though I feel the knowledge enhanced me as a PTA, he doesn't). He is sort of confused and distraught because he also makes the argument that PTs and PTAs aren't much different in the work accept for the evaluation and assessment part which I kind of agree. The worst part is that he tells me that thinking about it hurts him, keeps him up at night and brings him to tears. It's ridiculous to me what pride can do. He really just wants me to have that Doctorate degree. We've spoken about it and I concluded that it's not so much his interest in becoming a PT but more so in earning a Doctorate degree which is not why I went to PT school. I once told a fellow students that I am not becoming a PT to be a doctor, I am becoming a doctor to become a PT. If the PT program was still only a bachelor's degree I would still have gone in to it and I bet it wouldn't mean as much to my father because it's only a bachelor's. He kind of looks down at my being a PTA because it's only an associates degree even though it's pretty much the same work. That's how I know it's more about the degree to him than the profession. Especially since with my experience as a PTA I am making close to if not the same what starting PT would make. But he doesn't care about that, he still wants me to go back to PT school even though he's convinced that the reason I failed was a discrimination issue as he talks about how few people of color are in high places in the medical field and in general.
I'm not sure what to do to comfort him. I don't want to go back to school to risk this happening again. I'm hoping time will heal his wounds and he'll forget about this as I become successful as a PTA but he wants to know what can be done with my 90 credits in the position I am in?
Thank you.
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