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the big green weenie strikes again.
a little background info-- my wife and I are active duty, I'm currently deployed, and we are both subspecialists. her ADSO is up 30 Jun. she's in a department of 2. so you see where this is going. I don't have the best of relationships with my OIC-- I'm respectful and we have a working relationship but that's how I would leave it. my wife has i think been grouped with me unfairly by our OIC but has never done anything other than her best work and still continues to run circles around her civilian colleague who is routinely 2-3 weeks behind on charts.
we warned our command last fall that there could be an issue with coverage if/when my wife REFRADed out. they didn't seem to care. so, in jan or so she put in Aug 20 as her last date, planning on 1 month of transitional leave from 20Jul-20Aug to allow for her replacement to at least show up and sign in.
fast forward to recent, and now our OIC is wanting to deny her leave. further, they want our section chief to deny it as an "exercise in leadership." yes, I **** you not. exact reasonings are still pending since this is a recent development.
this stinks to high heaven. i personally think there are other motives at play-- there are no other specialists available for backfill, and we had discussed having my wife extend until Nov to help with the transition but she has a job offer and is done with active duty and the games that are played. she couldn't be deployed but could definitely be tasked to NTC or some other stupid thing once her replacement arrives giving them a "spare" body-- and needless to say we don't trust our OIC not to do something like that. otherwise i can't for the life of me see the rationale behind denying it. it seems arbitrary and punitive for no reason which i will explain below.
we've discussed it, and our first step is asking the middle man in the situation to defer his decision-- or even "approve" the leave since he personally disagrees with our OIC's position. this will (should) force our OIC to 1) officially deny it and 2) allow us to make them give rationale for why.
then things get interesting. there is precedent in the department of a previous physician getting out and leaving 1 colleague behind. interestingly, his terminal leave was approved and he was gone 6 weeks before his final out. this was less than a year ago. further-- i deployed, leaving my colleague as an n of 1 for at least 5, and up to 9 months. this did not seem to be a problem. finally she was on the OML to deploy as well (which would have also left them with an N of 1 but for 5-9 months instead of 1 month) but we avoided it because of my deployment. none of those scenarios seemed to cause any consternation.
the situation is young, but i think we have 3 options. one, try to have a conversation behind the rationale and see if something can be worked out (not likely but possible), two, file an official complaint (there's a UCMJ process that slips my mind at the moment) and attempt to go over the OIC's head, or three, attempt to potentially backdate my wifes REFRAD to an earlier date. the reason this is important is that she's planning on spending time with extended family in august-- which previously would have been terminal leave but now barring any changes she'll be expected to report to work.
i know this has been hashed/rehashed before, but was wondering if anyone had any advice. and also wanted to throw it out there that it's not just the navy that pulls this ****.
--your friendly neighborhood BOHICA and A and A caveman
a little background info-- my wife and I are active duty, I'm currently deployed, and we are both subspecialists. her ADSO is up 30 Jun. she's in a department of 2. so you see where this is going. I don't have the best of relationships with my OIC-- I'm respectful and we have a working relationship but that's how I would leave it. my wife has i think been grouped with me unfairly by our OIC but has never done anything other than her best work and still continues to run circles around her civilian colleague who is routinely 2-3 weeks behind on charts.
we warned our command last fall that there could be an issue with coverage if/when my wife REFRADed out. they didn't seem to care. so, in jan or so she put in Aug 20 as her last date, planning on 1 month of transitional leave from 20Jul-20Aug to allow for her replacement to at least show up and sign in.
fast forward to recent, and now our OIC is wanting to deny her leave. further, they want our section chief to deny it as an "exercise in leadership." yes, I **** you not. exact reasonings are still pending since this is a recent development.
this stinks to high heaven. i personally think there are other motives at play-- there are no other specialists available for backfill, and we had discussed having my wife extend until Nov to help with the transition but she has a job offer and is done with active duty and the games that are played. she couldn't be deployed but could definitely be tasked to NTC or some other stupid thing once her replacement arrives giving them a "spare" body-- and needless to say we don't trust our OIC not to do something like that. otherwise i can't for the life of me see the rationale behind denying it. it seems arbitrary and punitive for no reason which i will explain below.
we've discussed it, and our first step is asking the middle man in the situation to defer his decision-- or even "approve" the leave since he personally disagrees with our OIC's position. this will (should) force our OIC to 1) officially deny it and 2) allow us to make them give rationale for why.
then things get interesting. there is precedent in the department of a previous physician getting out and leaving 1 colleague behind. interestingly, his terminal leave was approved and he was gone 6 weeks before his final out. this was less than a year ago. further-- i deployed, leaving my colleague as an n of 1 for at least 5, and up to 9 months. this did not seem to be a problem. finally she was on the OML to deploy as well (which would have also left them with an N of 1 but for 5-9 months instead of 1 month) but we avoided it because of my deployment. none of those scenarios seemed to cause any consternation.
the situation is young, but i think we have 3 options. one, try to have a conversation behind the rationale and see if something can be worked out (not likely but possible), two, file an official complaint (there's a UCMJ process that slips my mind at the moment) and attempt to go over the OIC's head, or three, attempt to potentially backdate my wifes REFRAD to an earlier date. the reason this is important is that she's planning on spending time with extended family in august-- which previously would have been terminal leave but now barring any changes she'll be expected to report to work.
i know this has been hashed/rehashed before, but was wondering if anyone had any advice. and also wanted to throw it out there that it's not just the navy that pulls this ****.
--your friendly neighborhood BOHICA and A and A caveman